The BDSM Kit That Really Does Have Everything (Budget-Friendly)

Despite what you may be thinking, the practice of BDSM is not new at all. The beginnings of it go as far back as the 9th and 5th centuries BC. People have always found it arousing to dominate or be dominated, as evident in countless depictions of flagellations and whippings in erotic situations from those times. 

Nowadays, BDSM is a widely accepted porn and sex niche. Some engage in it regularly, assuming the role of a dom or the role of a sub (or either one, if they’re a switch) and bringing their own set of kinks to the table. Others are casual about it but still enjoy a good spanking or bondage play every now and then.

BDSM is for everyone. It includes hundreds of different kinks and dozens of different roles, and you are sure to find what works for you without much effort. Even though it may look aggressive and violent on the outside, BDSM is actually focused on bonding, building stronger relationships, and deepening the trust between partners. 

It’s actually a beautiful thing when you stop to think about it. Nothing brings you closer to the person you love, like giving yourself over to them completely and trusting them to guide you to the heights of pleasure. (Or being the one to guide.)

I Love BDSM, But My Bank Doesn’t

cartoon woman holding gimp mask and butt plug

When you come across the BDSM acronym, you immediately imagine spank paddles, floggers, gag balls, latex bodysuits, and all sorts of stereotypical BDSM paraphernalia. It’s true that most BDSM enthusiasts use any number of these toys for their sessions. It all depends on what the scene is, what the people involved like, and what is available. 

Getting your hands on these BDSM toys can be time-consuming and pretty costly. If you’re a beginner, you may not even be sure what to get or where to look for it. I know I’ve been there in my humble BDSM beginnings. I had no idea what I liked or didn’t like and even less idea on how to find that out. 

So this is why I’ve decided to write a post about BDSM kits. They’re a great way for you to familiarize yourself with the basic BDSM toys without much commitment and without coughing up a bucket load of cash for them. 

If you’re new here, and even if you’re not, you might want to take a moment to read about what a BDSM kit entails. It will be a great opportunity for you to consider updating your toy collection and adding some new kinky tools to your routine. 

BDSM Kits Are A Budget-Friendly Way To Get Into BDSM

ball gag on my pink table

A kit is a set of items that you’ll most commonly need for something. A BDSM kit is precisely that: a collection of toys and tools to start you off on your BDSM adventures. These kits can be big or small, containing as few as three pieces and as many as twenty (for that, see my favorite BDSM kit below). 

They can also be relatively cheap or quite expensive. The whole point of a kit is to get several items for a price lower than you’d pay for each item individually, so weigh your options carefully before you decide to invest. Some kits are higher in quality than others and may last longer or give you more options when it comes to activities you can perform. 

Another purpose of the kit is that it doesn’t require you to spend time endlessly searching for the items you need for a good BDSM session. Everything is included in the set and all you need to do is pick what you want to start with. 

Even though I wasn’t a beginner in BDSM, I still jumped at the chance to get a kit just so I can test out all of what it had to offer.

My Favorite Bondage Kit

full bdsm kit

The main reason this is my favorite BDSM kit is that you get everything in it. And I mean truly everything. If you want a complete BDSM collection with a single click of a button, all you need to do is buy this one with exactly 20 pieces in it. 

It has it all: sex toys, bondage gear, tools for sensory play, all sorts of devices to cause pain, and a lot more. The first time I saw this kit, I couldn’t believe everything it had for such a low price. It doesn’t matter whether you’re starting from scratch or looking to upgrade your collection – this kit is perfect for you either way. 

Everything That Is Included:

  • 1 blindfold
  • 1 rubber flogger for tickling and spanking (find out how to spank, the right way)
  • 1 stainless steel pinwheel
  • 1 collar
  • 1 chained nipple clamps that can easily be adjusted
  • 1 clitoral clamp
  • 2 nipple ring clamps
  • 1 ball gag with a 5.5-inch ball (My full experience with this ball gag)
  • 5 meters (approximately 16 feet) of bondage rope
  • 1 bullet vibrator with seven-speed levels
  • 1 G-spot vibrator (my experience with this g-spot vibrator)
  • 1 single-use vibrating cock ring
  • 1 textured penis stroker 
  • 1 jiggle balls toy 
  • 1 suction cup dildo of 6 inches
  • 1 butt plug for anal play beginners (you can find your perfect butt plug here)
  • 1 set of anal beads
  • 1 pair of wrist cuffs
  • 1 pair of ankle cuffs
  • 1 under-mattress strap system

The First Time We Tried This Kit (Story)

God, the first time we tried this kit, my boyfriend and I wanted to do it all. 

This was, of course, the completely wrong approach to a kit such as this and we knew we had to pace ourselves. We weren’t beginners in BDSM, but we were like little kids on Christmas morning. We couldn’t stop pulling out the toys and unpacking and admiring them and being all like, “I want to try this. And this. And this!” 

In the end, we settled on something a little tame. My boyfriend tied my wrists and ankles to our bed, in all four corners thanks to the great restraints, and then he proceeded to undo me completely with the sex toys. 

He used the dildo in my pussy, at the same time opening my ass with the butt plug. I was so wet, trying to squirm but of course, I was completely at his mercy. He dictated what I could feel and when I could feel it, and he wasn’t very generous at the beginning. 

After the butt plug, he slowly slid the anal beads inside me, driving me crazy with each one. The ultimate torture was the bullet vibrator he would press to my clit. It made me moan so loud, but then he would take it away just when I was about to climax. 

By the end of our edging game, I was in tears. I resisted against the cuffs so hard I had red marks on my skin afterward. I watched my boyfriend jerk himself off on top of me and spill all over my tits while the anal beads were still inside me and I was still desperate for an orgasm of my own. 

It was easily one of the best playtimes we’ve ever had.

We couldn’t wait to do it again, using different toys and different scenarios. We knew it would take ages for us to try out all the pieces of the kit and even longer to exhaust all the possible combinations of them.

Why I Love This Kit So Much

  • It has everything
  • No, seriously, everything
  • Great selection of anal toys
  • Nipple clamps!
  • Sturdy and durable restraints
  • Toys for both him and her
  • Great balance of items for rope play, sensory play, deprivation play, and more
  • Amazing value
  • Haven’t yet seen a more complete kit
  • EVERYTHING

Other BDSM Kits That Are Amazing

selection of different bdsm kits

If you’re not thrilled by the kit I just described or would like to see what else is out there, here are some other great options. They have everything you need to start (or continue) your BDSM journey, with slight variations between them. Consider them all before you make a final decision on which one to get for you and your kinky partner. 

My Second Favorite Kit

leather bdsm toys

As the kit description proudly says, this one meets all of your BDSM needs from head to toe. I love that it’s all made in elegant black. Even though leather is a premium material that is comfortable and lasts long, this kit is made from faux leather to be vegan- and vegetarian-friendly. 

In this 6-piece set, you get a flogger, a blindfold, two pairs of cuffs – for the wrists and for the ankles – a lead with a plain collar and a ball gag. It’s really all you need to start you off in the right way. My favorite among all this has to be the ball gag which is about 6 inches in diameter and easily adjustable to fit anyone. 

The Darker Sides Of Bondage

restraint bdsm kit with candles, bed restraints, handcuffs, nipple suckers and pinwheel

Now here is something more intense! This particular kit comes with 10 amazing pieces to fulfill your every dirty dream. It’s not just a blindfold, a flogger, a collar and cuffs; there’s a lot more to make good use of here. In this mega kit, you also get nipple clamps and nipple suckers, a pinwheel for that prickly pain, and a bondage candle for wax play!

To make tying up easier, you also get a special system of straps that go under your mattress and make bondage in all four corners of the bed so simple even if you don’t have any posters. I’m not sure whether this kit would be good for beginners, but you can definitely get all sorts of creative with it. 

The Highest-Quality Bondage Kit

collar, ball gag, handcuffs all in pink leather

In case you’re not familiar with mainstream porn, Joanna Angel is a BDSM porn star with a huge following. She puts her name on this bondage kit made from only the highest-quality materials that sport her pink punk babe aesthetic. If you’re into being cute as well as dominated, here is a kit for you. 

The reason this one is better (and more expensive) than the rest is the genuine leather its five pieces are made of. The wrist and ankle cuffs, as well as the hogtie, are made from leather that is produced in-house. As a result, this kit is highly durable and comfortable, with minimal break-in necessary for it to mold to the shape of the sub’s body. 

The Full Control Bondage Kit

pegging kit

While most of the items here can be used in a variety of ways, of course, this kit is mainly geared towards female doms. The obvious reason for this is the harness strap-on made for pegging or otherwise thrusting into their sub. 

The Full Control Kit comes with a blindfold, a flogger, two nipple suckers, a ball gag, a bullet vibrator(!), ankle and wrist restraints, an under-mattress strap system, a suction cup dildo and a harness to fasten the dildo to for complete domination. I am personally not a dom, so I can’t speak for all the pleasures this offers, but I’m confident this kit will bring you a lot of fun in the bedroom. 

The Positions Master Kit

position master bdsm kit

This one is beginner-friendly and aimed at helping you discover a wide range of new positions with your partner. The kit includes a soft satin blindfold for luxurious deprivation play, wrist and ankle cuffs with adjustable velcro, and a hogtie for complete bondage. These are all standard elements, but there are also more interesting ones.

You will find an inflatable wedge for positions with deeper penetration, one position restraint to keep the sub’s legs up, two straps to keep the sub’s arms over their head against a door, and a whole sex swing for the door as well for suspension play. If you’ve always wanted to up your restraint game, now is the time. 

Bondage Boutique Kit

bdsm kit with blindfold, handcuffs and ball gag

While Fifty Shades of Grey misses a lot of what BDSM and safe, sane and consensual BDSM play are about, there’s no denying that sex toys and sex kits with that title make for good marketing. This kit has three pieces that are more than enough for you to venture into the BDSM world.

There’s a blindfold you can adjust the width of, a pair of wrist cuffs for those new to bondage, and a ball gag to muffle the sub’s moans with a 5.5-inch ball made from silicone. Every piece in this kit is lined with faux fur to keep the sub comfy and the metallic blue color is refreshing to see, especially to a girl like me who loves a splash of color on her sex toys. 

Budget Beginner BDSM Kit (Amazing Value For Money)

bdsm kit with red restraints, flogger, blindfold and ball gag

As I mentioned before, BDSM can be hard on your wallet. Even kits like these can cost a pretty penny, making you hesitate about dipping into your budget. This is why I decided to include this best value kit that gives you the most for the least amount of cash. 

Here’s what you get in it: wrist and ankle cuffs, a blindfold, a ball gag with a beginner’s 4.5-inch ball, a flogger with soft tendrils and a bondage strap that you can use for furniture restraint as well as hogtying. This is all you really need to explore your BDSM side and see what works for you and what doesn’t.

Purple Rains Kit (Super-Budget)

purple rains kit

Even less expensive than the previous one, this super-budget kit is for those who are not willing to spend much. These pieces aren’t made from leather or faux-leather but from nylon, which is quite durable even if not very aesthetically pleasing. It’s a good investment if you’re not yet sure whether BDSM is for you or not.

The kit contains a flogger for first-time spanking and a ball gag with a 5.25-inch ball that can be easily adjusted. The cuffs are extra padded for comfort and they come with two straps you can use to customize your restraint session with. This kit also works as a great gift for someone you know who wants to try BDSM out. 

Building Your Own BDSM Kit

diy bdsm

Sometimes even in kits like these, you can’t find what you’re looking for. Sometimes, they have pieces you like and will use as well as those you’re not a fan of and will likely just discard somewhere in the dusty corners of your closet. 

If you can’t find a kit that meets all of your needs, you could try building one yourself! It doesn’t have to be complicated since you can easily find all of the components online. It also doesn’t have to be more expensive than already existing kits. 

Here’s what a good BDSM kit consists of:

Pick and choose the pieces that fit your kinks and leave out the rest. With a little bit of persistence and imagination, you should be able to put together a perfect kit in no time!

How To Make Your BDSM Kit Ever Better?

how to bdsm guide

Here are some quick guidelines on how to make the most out of your kit. The important thing is to relax and have fun and not be afraid to experiment! The goal here isn’t to be the best at BDSM you can be – there is no such thing. It’s about exploring your kinks and sexuality and having a lot of quality time with your partner. So enjoy it!

Learn How To Use Each Toy/Restraint/Tool

Take your time to examine each item in your kit. Rope, vibrators, restraints, ball gags, floggers, nipple clamps and dildos all come with learning curves. You shouldn’t just shove stuff in and on and hope for the best.

Getting good at using any type of sex toy is a process. Even something as straightforward as a dildo could use some finessing to get right the first few times you try it. Some BDSM toys may be more complicated than others. This is especially true for the rope which you can use in hundreds of different ways and positions and with equally as many different knots and bondage styles. 

You’re not racing anywhere. Exploring BDSM is a lifetime journey, so go easy on yourself and remember that practice makes perfect.

Try One Thing At A Time

As I said in my story about using my kit for the first time, it’s so easy to be like an overexcited puppy. You want this and this and then this and this could also be great – but if you lose focus, your BDSM playtime will just be lackluster and underwhelming.

For your first few sessions, use just the bed restraints, for example. Then pair the bed restraints with one new item at a time. You’ll quickly learn what you like and what makes you hot and what gives you the best orgasms. 

Pacing yourself will help you not feel overwhelmed and overstimulated and you’ll know exactly what type of pleasure you’ll get out of each tool. 

You Can Also Add A Sex Toy Kit (Complete Collection)

Even though some BDSM kits (like my favorite one above) come with plenty of toys of their own, perhaps you can add a sex toy kit to your BDSM one and truly have your collection complete.

My suggestion is this:

sex kit with g-spot vibrator, rabbit vibrator, anal beads, jiggle balls, cock ring, masturbatur and butt plug

This sex toy kit comes with a G-spot vibrator, a rabbit vibrator, as well as a set of separate vibrating bunny ears, a butt plug, a male stroker, anal beads, jiggle balls, a rabbit cock ring, and another cock ring set. 

The same guidelines for using your BDSM kit apply here: take your time in trying out each toy and learning how it works. Once you’re ready to really go crazy, combine pieces from both kits for an ultimate night filled with hot sex and kinky gadgets. 

Take A BDSM Test To Find Out What You Like

Lastly, if you are an absolute beginner, like not even sure what you’d enjoy in BDSM, then take this test to help you build a good kit.

It’s simple and easy and doesn’t take much time and it gives you wonderfully accurate results. Is anyone surprised that I ended up being a sub and a rope bunny? Definitely not me. 

Have fun discovering more about yourself and your BDSM preferences with all of these amazing BDSM kits!

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