What are the best gay sex toys you’ve used?

As a gay guy with a pinch for kink, my friend thought it would be great if I went ahead and did another takeover of his blog, this time expanding the story to gay sex toys in general. Because why not cover as many bases as we can? After all, this blog is like a meeting point for a bunch of open-minded people in want of new things, so he better be sure he’s gonna try to include something for everyone.

Just as any same-sex couple or hetero individual needs some fun little gadgets in their life, the same goes for gays! Especially if they felt like they were constricted by society and the people around them, and/or were unable to proclaim their love for the same sex, let alone feel comfortable enough to dive into the deeper levels of homosexual intercourse.

Because come on, there are just so many wonderful options out there not to go and explore. You can fuck and get fucked, experience good ol’ orgasms AND prostate orgasms that will rock your body into heavenly oblivion, and so many other things.

Normally, with that many sexual acts (and finales) to choose from, there are thousands of options when it comes to sex toys. So without further ado, let me present to you all my faves that I have personally tested…

Oh, before we begin, let me preface all of this with very important advice: lube up. Always and a lot.

The Best Gay Sex Toys Every Gay Man/Couple Needs

collection of different gay sex toys

Okay, let’s jump in. This is my full sex toy collection, this has something for everyone and begins with one of the first dildos I ever used.

Must-Own Beginner Gay Dildo

realistic dildo

Let’s cover the basics first. If you are a newbie to anal play and sex toys in general, consider this classic realistic dildo a good starting point. With 6 inches, it’s an ideal first step into discoveries.

I immediately liked its firm form, veiny appearance, and the very tip. Because, if you look at the tip itself, it is not too prominent and thus potentially off-putting for beginners. It has just the right size for one to look at and think “Yep, that’s an acceptable size of a cock”.

The suction cup base does its job exactly as it should, so when I fix it to the hardwood in my apartment, I can take my time playing with the dildo and my lubed up asshole, lowering myself and getting used to the girth. I love feeling the veins along the shaft, as well as the very material of the penis. I couldn’t tell from the picture if it was too floppy or painfully stiff, but it turned out to be a soft middle. Soft to the touch, but maintaining a hardness along the whole shaft.

Needless to say, this baby is now one of my go-to toys for prostate massaging because it hits my spot so nicely! I feel so kinky when I stick it to a wall and go for it, especially when I am joined by my boyfriend. This one time, I was slowly sucking on him while taking the dildo up my as while the sex toy was mounted on the wall. I was slow, patient, and seductive.

I let my muscles contract and feel the fake cock that was massaging my p-spot so wonderfully.

After a short while, I felt the familiar PO (prostate orgasm) starting to build up. The radiating feeling from inside spread from my penis and ass to the very tips of my fingers and I felt my face go numb.

I stopped sucking on my boyfriend and was moaning in intense pleasure with his hard cock in my mouth. I was shaking from the ongoing etheric orgasm, while simultaneously pushing my man to the edge, thanks to the vibrations my moans were causing around his mouth.

We had one of the dirtiest and hottest endings ever – while I was still on all fours and had the dildo up my ass, feeling all spent and shaking from the PO, my boyfriend started facefucking my tired mouth, pulling out to finish all over my face. 10/10, will use again.

The Must-Own Large Gay Anal Dildo

large anal dildo

C’mon, you gotta try a large one at least once! And believe me, you can’t go wrong with this glistening bad boy. Shit, my mouth waters just from looking at it. The King Cock dildo is such a meaty monstrous treat of an amazing 8.5 inches.

While this one can also stick to flat surfaces, I love using it in bed with my boyfriend. Sure, I’m usually the one to bottom, but none of us could’ve passed on the chance to try out this meat candy. None of us can take the whole thing in, but it’s a fun challenge each time. Usually, my boyfriend starts by eating my ass while massaging my balls, moving to fingering my ass.

Soon after he loosens me up by sticking in a lubed up butt plug and I blow him a bit. Then the fun starts. My boyfriend says he loves to see the girth of this dildo disappear in my ass and that the veiny details just add to the whole hot scene.

The Fantasy Ejaculating Dildo (Super Realistic)

ejaculating dildo

Well, this ejaculating dildo definitely makes you feel less lonely. The ejaculating dildo has the magic ability to shoot me to unimaginable heights of horniness quickly. Why? Well, I am a very sexual person, so just the sight of a dildo or another toy makes me shiver with anticipation and gets me in the mood. But KNOWING that a toy also has that kind of explosive surprise at the end… what a win.

I love cum, I love having it on my face, my tongue and of course up my ass. I just mix up the Nut Butter than comes with the dildo with some water and voila! The cum is ready for my ass. It just adds to the kink of solo play so much.

The Highest Rated Prostate Massager

remote control prostate massager

There is a reason why both me and my friend who runs this kink-fest of a blog love this prostate massager, raving about it once when we got together for a beer. It doesn’t matter if you’re gay or straight, guy or girl or something else, the Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Massager is for all of us.

Sure, solo play is fun with this one, but I love hot sex sessions with my bf where he can tease me and control my orgasms and pleasures. That’s why the remote control feature is a godsend. It has 8 modes and 12 intensity levels… my mind gets blown every time my man whips this bad boy out while we’re in bed.

With just a few vibration changes, he can bring me to the edge and well over it in such a short time. It always ends up with me screaming out loud in pleasure and shaking all over, feeling my muscles contract around the massager and feeling my prostate getting milked. My boyfriend loves this toy so much, he can’t help but jerk off while controlling the remote.

Sometimes he leaves it in my ass, holding the remote in one hand and kneeling in front of me, masturbating. When he senses my orgasm building up, he speeds up his meat beating, syncing our orgasms and letting out gushes of sticky sperm that end up hotly running down my flushed face. 

If you want to learn more about prostate massagers and prostate milking check this guide out.

The Prostate Stimulating Butt Plug I Love

black prostate stimulating butt plug

I wasn’t done with out-of-this-world prostate stimulators! So say hello to my newest booty buddy butt plug! I have such appreciation for toys that follow the curve of the body, and this one definitely does! It’s fantastically orgasmic and hits my p-spot sweetly.

This kinky little buddy is one that I slather in lube and prance around the flat, teasing my man. I am always very close to intense horniness when wearing this massager, so as soon as my boyfriend approaches me, I tense up, my sphincter muscles clench and my cock stiffens.

He knows this, so he usually comes from behind, breathing in my neck and reaching around to grab my penis. His other hand then finds the flared base of my plug and starts tugging at it gently but firmly. You don’t know pleasure until you have had a standing PO.

I remember the first time we did this. I wouldn’t have been able to achieve the orgasm if it wasn’t for the counter to hold onto because my legs would’ve given up. I never got to a PO that quickly – I was cumming after 5 minutes!

Whenever I wear it for a longer period, I take it out occasionally to re-lube and I put it back in again.

You can also check this guide that will help you find the perfect butt plug, from size, to material and even shape.

You Need To Try This Vibrating Prostate Massager

prostate massager

You didn’t seriously think we would be finishing this list without some ridged options? Ha.

Here is a vibrating prostate massager that got me to P-town so many times. And my boyfriend, not the one to bottom a lot, actually adores this sex toy! It really hits his sweet spot with ease thanks to its beautifully curved black tip.

There are 3 speeds and 7 patterns that are controlled with little fuss, so I love touching myself while watching my man explore this gadget we got just a while ago, which means he’s still discovering new moments, much to both of our pleasures.

Must-Try Anal Bead Vibrator

anal bead vibrator

It’s bead time! I perk up every time another one of the vibrating anal bulbs goes up my ass.

First of all, the velvety material really treats my butthole delicately.

Second, when the vibrations get going, I start whimpering on the bed almost instantly, my legs thrashing around. My boyfriend and I use this for simultaneous solo play. He grabs one toy, I grab this one and we get at it. I usually position myself on my back, with my ass lifted by pillows, so my man gets a first-row view of the action and the ass-clenching.

Amazing Vibrating Butt Plug

butt plug

This vibrating butt plug really lives up to its name – it sends tingles down my spine just by thinking about it, while it also tingles me in all the right places when I use it.

I adore its slender and elegant shape and delicate 3.5 inch girth. My boyfriend and I have two – that’s how much we love this cute little buddy. We use it sometimes as a warmup toy while giving each other hand jobs, kissing and rolling around the bed.

Then the second stage begins, with us turning on the vibrations. Whimpering into each other’s mouths, we let this toy work us up for the grand finale of good old ass pounding. But we don’t forget that it was the 10 vibrating functions of the 3.5 inch butt plug that got us here.

My Favorite Gay Fleshlight

man holding a fleshjack

While I didn’t watch much of Levi Karter’s work, my bf did and that’s one of the reasons he was excited when this fleshjack arrived in discreet packaging one day. That’s right, I surprised him with a gift, but of course, I have used it a few times myself.

Anyways, we both love the fun numbs and ribs, while just by touching the toy you can sense its quality and the real-feel moment to it. Toys like these add an extra rush of blood to my erect member. Add to that the first moment of popping into the super-tight hole with your member while all lubed up… Pure heaven.

You can also make your fleshlight into a sex machine using this guide (scroll to the bottom)

Fleshlight Pilot

fleshlight flight

I love a realistic dick and some nice bulging veins, but sometimes I just appreciate good, sleek design that doesn’t even come close to the word “realistic”, at least appearance-wise. Hence, this fleshlight flight on this list.

The canal is bumpy and while it doesn’t really remind me of ass fucking, the experience is still mind-blowing, especially when I am generously lubed up.

The Flight Pilot also has a suction cap base, so I can go that extra mile of teasing myself and achieving earth-shattering orgasms, while also training to last longer in bed. To be honest, the tight feeling and pleasure was so strong the first few times that I had to slow down, so I wouldn’t ejaculate prematurely.

Since I can’t see myself fucking a real pussy anytime soon or aka EVER, I guess this fleshlight is the closest I’ll ever get to it. But what a pussy it is.

How To Look After And Clean Your Sex Toys

cartoon of different shaped dildos

All of my advice will be for nothing if you don’t leave this blog knowing a bit of something about taking care of your sex toys. Because what does a good quality gadget mean if you let it go to waste?

Even more so, foregoing that kind of care can lead to serious problems, health-wise. I’m talking UTI’s and other touchy problems that can arise from letting yeast and bacteria run amok. 

The golden rule is to clean each toy after every use. And do it thoroughly. You may think that will take up a lot of time, but really it won’t, especially when you get the gist of it.

Second, read the instructions. Especially since some of the toys can’t be cleaned with aggressive chemicals or hot water, so as not to damage the material or cause irritations. Usually, antibacterial soap does the trick.

Be sure to air dry your toy. For example, when drying your fleshlight, you will want to turn it upside down. That way, all the extra water will drip out the toy and there will be no fertile ground for mold and such.

This should go without saying, but not all parts of every toy are waterproof. So again – read the instructions and be sure to remove the batteries, if there are any.

Bear in mind also this, some toys made of silicone react great to cornstarch being added onto them (never in them) once they are totally dry, in a way that it helps them last longer and serve their purpose.

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