What is the best anal dildo?

I am very grateful for being asked to do this takeover of the blog by my friend because I do see myself as an expert on the subject of anal dildos. Well, ok, that didn’t sound very humble, so allow me to call myself an anal dildo aficionado with a lot of experience behind him.

Although I am gay and engage strictly with guy-on-guy action, this overview of the best sex toys for butt play is meant for everyone! It doesn’t matter if you’re a man, woman, someone in between, or someone identifying as something entirely else, looking to experiment on your own or aching to spice it up in the bedroom with your partner… This is for all of us!

I have owned quite a few dildos over the years. They all have different features, lengths and positive sides, so I tried to handpick a chosen few to present to you. Why?

Because if you’re not familiar with butt action, you’re really missing out! It’s ok if it’s not your cup of tea, but if you have never tried it, I urge you to give it a go! Buy a beginner dildo or training kit, have your partner stick a finger in you during some hot romp and allow yourself to live through new sensations! How can you know if you have never tried?

The Best Anal Dildo I’ve Ever Tried (Must Own)

purple anal dildo

Like I have said in the title above, this anal dildo is a must-own. I love the angle and curve of this anal dildo and the way it stimulates my p-spot. One can really tell that the makers made sure that it follows the natural shape of the body. I have mastered the art of mounting it on a wall and then pegging myself with it. Another thing I do is that I fix it on another flat surface such as my floor and I squat and carefully lower myself onto it, all lubed up.

The Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo is my versatile lover because it also has the option of adding a vibrating bullet inside!

The fact that it combines a great velvety material, a suitable length, the flared suction base AND a vibration option was the winning combo that made me buy it and I have never looked back since.

The first time I have used this was fairly recently and by then I was a seasoned pro. So I wasn’t that keen on trying it out myself as I was keen to have my partner usher me into new orgasmic sensations.

I told my boyfriend about the newest addition to our growing sex toy family and honestly, the horny twinkle in his eye was enough to tell me that he was down to play. I don’t know if I have made it clear by now, but I’m the bottom in our relationship. Not all of the time, but that’s usually the case. 

That evening, I prepared myself for the sexy bedroom encounter, giving myself an anal douche and generally staying away from spicy foods.

My boyfriend was out and about on a business dinner, so I got into the mood by watching some porn, already eager for his cock in my mouth. So when he arrived, we didn’t waste a lot of time, me leading him into the bedroom and hungrily kissing him along the way.

As soon as our tongues entwined, our hands started traveling all over our bodies, each move and stroke showing more passion and lust. While I was grabbing the back of his neck and hair, he finally got to my trunks.

There was already a sizable tent there, so when he pulled them down, my cock sprang up, ready to be engulfed. My man quickly got on his knees and onto the action, first swirling his tongue on the tip of my penis, making me moan quietly. Next, he traced his tongue from the base to the top, seamlessly following with a move that engulfed nearly my whole cock in his mouth.

Not being sure that I can take such a good feeling anymore and sensing that I was near the edge, I pulled him to his knees, which he took rightly as a cue to go and get the new dildo and lube.

As we went to lay on the bed, we continued making out, with my bf lubing me up generously and making me shiver with his finger. Then two. Then three. I was on my back, already spread and ready, while he lay sideways next to me, kissing me and applying pressure on my butthole with our new toy.

My hole quickly gave way as my man started pumping slowly, going a bit deeper each time. I panted into our kisses, which turned into loud moaning as soon as my bf added the vibrations!

The feeling inside was just so good, nearly natural. The absolute comfort and feeling of fullness just added to the mounting satisfaction that afterward led to several sticky gushes of sperm from both of us. Later on, we moved out to full-on anal, but this was a foreplay I will never forget.

The Reason This Beats Other Anal Dildos

  • The way the dildo curves sits so nicely with me! I have achieved many P-spot orgasms with this one
  • The silicone material really has a nice touch to it and I feel safe using it
  • It’s made in such a quality way and the suction base cup didn’t give up on me once
  • With a 7-inch length, it’s like the golden middle of fake cocks
  • For the gals out there, this can be put onto a harness and used for pegging
  • Ummm, should I mention again the vibrating option?!

The Rest of My Anal Dildo Collection

different types of anal dildos

Never one to shy away from sexploration, I have tried a few other fun anal sex toys because through versatility and openness one can really and truly come to know themselves sexually and fully!

My Huge Anal Dildo

large brown anal dildo

If you’re a serious anal player by now, don’t miss out on this monster cock that will take you to another realm!

First of all, this black dick is beautiful and pretty lifelike with the intertwined veins and juicy tip. Sometimes my boyfriend and I start out our foreplay with me watching him intently while licking and sucking the tip of his toy, until he can’t take it anymore, pulling down his pants to start jerking himself off and inviting me to come and kneel in front of him. Somehow it’s like adding a third person into the room and adding excitement.

Skip this sex toy if you’re a beginner because at 9 inches, this baby is a lot to take in (pun not intended, but here we are!). Heck, I didn’t manage to take the whole thing in yet, but I’m getting there and the feeling is amazing! Needless to say, the feeling is also hella fulfilling! So if you’re not a beginner, have fun and lube up generously!

It’s worth noting that this sex toy is also suitable for a harness. Again ladies, take note! Your boyfriends and girlfriends will be in for a rollercoaster of sensations and kinkiness!

Ebony Anal Dildo

ebony anal dildo

Here’s another ebony lover for ya. With a 7-inch length, it’s much more manageable for novices.

The lifelike lover dildo is made to be realistic and its curved shape hits me in a way I never knew a cock could. My boyfriend also loves it. He has fantasies of having a hot black guy fuck him senseless, even though he is the top usually. So we use this to play out these fantasies of his and let me tell you, he’s not the only one who gets horny in the process. Sometimes I am the voyeur as I watch him get fucked by the ebony dildo while it’s mounted on the wall thanks to the suction cup. Sometimes that game ends up with me approaching him and putting my cock in his mouth, so he continues sucking me while slowly taking the ebony dildo in. Heaven for both parties involved.

My Anal Vibrator (Everyone Needs One Of These)

black anal bead dildo

No, seriously, I stand by my statement. If you’re just a tad bit into anal play, you need this anal bead vibrator in your life.

It’s a beaded vibrator made from a smooth and velvety material, so what else can one ask from an anal toy? I love trying out and combining the 3 speeds and 7 pulsating patterns. It took me a while to get accustomed to it and learn to control the settings, but once I got the hang of it, it was Pleasuretown from thereon.

Moreover, this is one of my faves to use when alone. I had so many PO’s (prostate orgasms) with it. I just set the mood, put on some porn, pour some beer and dive into a world of beaded pleasure until I feel my whole body shaking from the incoming prostate orgasm that seems to start radiating from the whole of my body at once. And when it gets going, it’s like a snowball down the hill when it comes to the intensity. I come in an earth-shattering orgasm that seems to go on and on and on. I just love it.

The Anal Dildo for Beginners

beginner anal dildo

I haven’t tried this dildo myself, but the reviews are really favorable and nearly impeccable. This dildo is made with first-timers in mind, so not only is it a fair 6 inches, but it is also slim and flexible, hence the name Crystal Jellies Anal Starter. The curve is a mild and gentle one while also hitting the right spots.

You can try this with a partner or use the suction base to experiment yourself. And for the love of god, don’t forget the lube.

Anal Training Kit (If You’re Not Sure What You Enjoy)

different anal sex toys

Say hello to the booty bundle kit! If you’re still wondering which toy is for you, why not get this set which will help you answer that question? I loved trying out these ones! My boyfriend prefers the butt plugs, while I gravitate more to the velvety anal beads and the prostate toy. Somehow naturally, we both like the vibrating options more. For example, the vibrating prostate massager is a compact toy of wonders!

And on the practical side, I like the anal douche, because it’s a breeze to use and quite co.pact.

How To Use An Anal Dildo

how to use an anal dildo

A lot of things seem intimidating in life. But as soon as you get to know the subject a bit deeper, the fog already starts to clear and along with it goes the fear, too. The same analogy can be used for anal dildo and anal play in general. I am positive most of you who got this far are already more open to the idea of anal play (in case you came here with some doubts).

Preparing for Anal

cartoon of female butt

There’s a lot of misconceptions about anal play, like the fact that people believe that it creates a mess. Not necessarily, if you follow the right steps.

First of all, if you know you’re going to be engaging your rosebud that day, stay clear from spicy foods, sweets, snacks, and other heavyweights. Stick to those foods that have a lot of fiber.

Afterward, it’s time to douche. In case you have never done it before, here’s a step by step guide:

  • Fill out the douche with mild-temperature water, so you don’t damage the material of the douche
  • Try to do this in the shower or alternatively hovering above the toilet
  • Insert the tip inside and squirt the water
  • Very very important step ahead! Expel the water immediately, aka after a few seconds tops! If you keep it inside your body you can give yourself an enema and who wants that.
  • Repeat this a few times and until the water in the douche is used up
  • Shower while fantasizing about the awesome time you’re about to have!

This douche has been a mainstay for some time at our household. No wonder it’s called BASICS, because it cleans you out effectively and leaves your butt shiny and ready for some fun times. It’s simple to insert and actually has a tip that glows in the dark, in case the occasion requires such a thing (whichever place rocks your boat, so…).

And the next step is relaxation… I have some tips of my own on how I unwind.

  • Pick a relaxing day if that is possible, so your sphincter muscles are not as contracted
  • Watch some porn or have some other form of stimulation at hand; these can also be fun erotica stories or pure fantasies while keeping your eyes closed etc.
  • Try using one of these butt plugs to help get your butt ready for something bigger.
  • Mind your breathing, meditate a bit if you’re into the practice – this helps me quite a bit
  • Also, make sure to use loads of anal lube, I did this guide on finding the perfect anal lube and it’s something you must read.

All of this advice is written for beginners, intermediate and advanced players alike. Now, additionally, if you’re a beginner, you should also calculate in anal training, too!

What does this mean exactly? Well, for starters, read more and explore online the world of anal play. Consider getting a kit like the one I have described above, because this is crucial for finding out what you love. Start small and work your way up and see if you like ‘em vibrating or not, thick or skinny, long or short, etc.

Find The Best Anal Dildo Positions For You

cartoon of female body

Obviously, one of the most comfortable positions is on all fours. Doggy style really lets the anal dildo and its curve follow the shape of your body and it makes for an easier insertion

Missionary, aka lying on your back works, too. But in this case, you should probably add some blankets or pillows underneath your lower back. This will elevate it and your butt along with it, so the dildo will slip in easier.

Thanks to nearly all dildos having a flared suction base, you can stick it to a flat clean surface such as the floor and go at it while squatting and taking the fake cock up your ass inch by inch each time you go a bit lower.

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