I’ve Found The Best Male Vibrator

I’m sure you’re already familiar with a wide range of sex toys. If we disregard the fetish-specific ones like whips, paddles, gag balls, and similar, most toys are aimed at penetration. These include dildos of all kinds, vibrators, squirters, strap-ons, even special machines such as a Sybian. 

While they’re mostly geared towards women, men can also take advantage of penetrating pleasures these toys offer. (No, your masculinity won’t be threatened in the least, trust me.) 

However, what about toys for the dick? Anything out there that satisfies the man’s urge for something hot and tight? 

Fleshlights? How about something more intense?

Enter male vibrators.

In this post, I am going to explore the concept of a male vibrator, explain what it is and how to use it, as well as offer you a wonderful selection of vibrators you can treat yourself within a matter of a few clicks. (Spoiler alert: they don’t have anything to do with penetration.)

What Is A Male Vibrator?

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The simplest way to describe a male vibrator would be this: a relatively small device you insert your penis in that then vibrates to provide you with knee-trembling pleasure. These devices vary in size and shape (and features) depending on the manufacturer, but their principle is the same: your dick goes in, the toy vibrates, you orgasm. Pretty easy and straightforward. 

Male Vibrators Add A New Level Of Pleasure

I was a little skeptical about it at first; I couldn’t understand how a toy could compare to the wet hotness of a vagina. I have used fleshlights before and, while they were not bad, they were nowhere near the real thing. So I didn’t expect much out of a male vibrator either.

Boy, was I wrong.

The vibrations you will feel are next-level. If you set them just right, they can make you cum so hard you won’t hold back from crying out even if you’re by yourself (happened to me on occasion). 

They’re great to use for solo masturbation sessions, but they’re also neat to use with a partner. I often let my girlfriend control the vibrator around my dick so we can both take part in my pleasure. It’s a fun toy to use all around. 

I Freaking Love My Collection Of Vibrating Male Toys

The best thing about male vibrator is that it can be completely hands-free. Sometimes you just want to find a good cam show or play your favorite porn video, not do much and still get an orgasm out of it.

Despite the fact that jerking off isn’t a very energy-consuming activity, it would be cool if, on some days, we could just not put any effort into our sexual release.

The male vibrator lets you do just that. You just slip it on, switch on the vibrations, and you don’t have to do anything else. Sit back, relax, and let the toy vibrate its way to your climax. It’s that simple, and it’s the main reason why I love male vibrators so much. They’re my second favorite sex tools, right after watching my girlfriend shake herself apart on her Sybian.

The Best Male Vibrators

a collection of different male vibrators

To start you off on the right track, I’ve put together a list of my favorite male vibrators. Yes, I’ve tried all of these. I am a man who likes to experiment and is always open to new things. I have time and money to spare for my favorite hobby – sex and porn – so it should be no surprise that I went through as many of these as I possibly could before I landed on the toys that I wanted to permanently incorporate into my routine. 

Here are some of the best male vibrators, in my humble opinion. Read about all of them and see if there’s one that catches your eye. It might just be the best purchase you make this year.

Fun Factory Cobra (Favorite)

Fun factory cobra libre vibrator

The Cobra Libre II is a groundbreaking male vibrator. It has a precise design that focuses on the head of your penis as well as the frenulum (the underside of the head) and promises a ride that I was not prepared for in the least. Its ergonomic shape is exactly what sets it apart from other toys of its kind.

I love the Cobra because it is easy to carry around with me and it can also be used in the tub or in the shower because it is fully waterproof. You don’t have to get new batteries – it is fully rechargeable thanks to a handy USB charger. I love this vibrator, will never stop using it, and I can’t recommend it enough.

Luxury Male Vibrator (2nd Favorite)

Manta vibrating male stroker

This one is aptly named Manta and it classifies itself as a ‘vibrating stroker’. It is somewhat intimidating, and I was hesitant about putting my penis between the ‘horns’, but I knew I wanted to give it ago. Manta has six speeds and six patterns of vibrations, each one best for a particular activity.

I love this one because you can also use it with a partner. I sometimes position the Manta at the base of my penis while my girlfriend gives me a blowjob or between us while we’re having sex. It’s a type of pleasure you just have to experience to believe. 

Tracey Cox Super Sex Male Vibrator

Tracey Cox male vibrator being used on dildo

This cock vibrator is a funny-looking device and is actually made out of two key components: an egg vibrator and a sleeve. The sleeve has a part where you can insert the egg vibrator, while you slide the other end of the sleeve over the head of your penis (with generous amounts of lube, I have to point out). It’s one-size-fits-all! 

The egg vibrator has controls for four speeds, and the best part for me (and my girlfriend) is that it can be used independently of the device. My girl loves using it for clitoris stimulation, especially if I turn up the speed to max. We love incorporating the egg part of this male vibrator into our playtime. 

Vibrating Male Stroker

vibrating male stroker

In the picture, this vibrator looks like somewhat of a torture device. It has a spike-like texture inside, but I assure you that it is anything but painful. This sleeve is, in fact, quite stretchy and malleable, and it can fit any penis size precisely because it is open-ended. 

I use it to stroke myself, to enhance blowjobs when my girl gets down on her knees, and when I’m ready to climax, I just add in the bullet vibrator that comes with the sleeve! Just like with the previous option, this bullet vibrator can be used for other types of ecstasy as well, which adds versatility to the stroker. 

Hot Octopuss Jett

Hot octopuss jett being used on a dildo

The Jett from the famed Hot Octopuss brand is a very precise stimulator of the head of the penis. You can even slip it on when you’re completely soft; just position it the right way, and switch on what is called Treble and Bass bullet vibrators (yes, there are two of them in one device). 

The thrum of these goes right into my gut, and I have to say that it’s not a bad feeling at all. The two bullet vibrators have different frequencies that offer a wide range of possibilities when it comes to vibrating patterns. My favorite thing is giving the controls of this one to my girl to see what delicious new pleasures she can come up with.  

Testicle Stimulator

ball stimulator being used on the balls of a dildo

So this isn’t exactly a penis vibrator, but it is definitely aimed for men. Use this one together with any of the other options on this list to get an orgasm that will literally make you blackout for a moment. The testicle stimulator fits snugly over your nuts and its textured liner inside provides added excitement.

Of course, the sleeve comes with two bullet vibrators that you can use either separately or together. Try out the testicle stimulator by itself, but definitely don’t miss the chance to pair it up with a different type of male vibrator for a ride of your life. The first time I used the two in combination, I almost passed out, no joke.

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Male Vibrator

Hot Octopuss Pulse

While I love the sleeves as much as the next guy, there is something to be said about the effortless elegance of the Pulse Solo vibrator. It’s so easy to just slip your penis between the silicone sides and forget about the world. This one comes with PulsePlate technology that promises six patterns and eight intensity levels. 

This is a truly hands-free experience. All you need to do is put it on, turn it on, and not move for a few minutes. The vibrator will do the work for you and, you know what? Sometimes I’m more than willing to let it. If you have problems with mobility or grip, this could be a great option for you. 

Desire Vibrator

Desire luxury vibrator

The Desire is not for the faint of heart. This sleek toy has three motors inside it for eight different patterns and twelve (yes, 12!) levels of intensity. Sliding into this silicone canal is soft and easy and every time I let out a little sigh from how good it feels. And that’s before I even turn on the vibrations. 

Before I tried the Desire, I didn’t actually think something this intense existed. My advice would definitely be to slowly build-up to the higher levels of vibration because they might be a bit too much for a beginner. Don’t forget to include your partner in the fun if you feel like being super naughty. 

Thrust Pro Elite

Thrust pro elite sex toy

Finally, something for the eyes and not just for the dick! The Thrust Pro is actually a kit more than a single toy. It includes life-sized vagina and ass openings (as seen from behind) that lead into canals, which are described as feeling like the real thing. I have to say that it’s not like the real thing, but it’s pretty darn close.

Both openings are pretty tight and, if you lube up generously, they should envelop you with mind-reeling texture. In addition to this, you get a bullet vibrator that you can plop into any of the canals for even more extreme masturbation. (As a bonus, there is also a cock ring to enhance your ride and make you go for longer.)

One Of The Best Male Vibrators

magic wand being used on a dildo

If you’re not happy about getting an entirely new toy, why not make the most out of the magic wand your girlfriend has? You must have seen her using it whenever she felt like riding something that vibrated; magic wands can be a real thrill for both the girl and her partner. (Especially if combined with a dildo-like extension, but that’s a different post.)

Just like she can buy add-ons for herself, you can also get an attachment for your penis. This hummer toy is a silicone sleeve that you fasten onto the magic wand and slip over your shaft to heighten the sensations. There are two different textures on each end and my favorite is definitely the one with the nodules. 

Homemade Male Vibrator

diy male vibrator guide

If you’re not in the mood for going through all of the different male vibrator options and structures and stimulation ways, you can opt for something simpler. Make your own male vibrator by getting a regular pocket pussy and slipping a small bullet (egg) vibrator inside it. 

This means that you can use the pocket pussy on its own for your pleasure, the bullet vibrator for any other purpose – either on yourself or your partner – and you can combine them together for a homemade male vibrator! 

Here are some great pocket pussy options to consider: 

When you find the one you like, just add this bullet vibrator to it and you have yourself a vibrating sex toy.

Or, to save time and effort (and money), you can also buy the pocket pussy and the bullet vibrator together.

How To Use A Male Vibrator And Why You Need One

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Make sure your toy has charge

This is sort of a given; you can’t use the vibrations if there is no charge (or batteries) in the device to provide those vibrations. Most of the options on my list are rechargeable via a USB port (so convenient for traveling and all the different power outlets in foreign countries) but there are a couple that requires batteries. Don’t forget to charge or buy them before your playtime. 

(It has happened to me twice so far that I wanted to use a toy I forgot to charge. It was a sad day for everyone. Don’t be that guy.) 

Pick your entertainment

If you’re going to use the toy by yourself, you’re going to need some visual (or audio, if that’s more your speed) stimulation. Go for the obvious choices such as PornHub or xHamster and you won’t make a mistake. 

However, if you’re more into the amateur scene like I am, then maybe something geared towards that would be better. I am a huge fan of cam sites such as ImLive or JerkMate and video collections like Watch My GF. Pick any of these if you’re looking for real hot girls getting it on – either live or recorded – to make the best use out of your male vibrator. 

Start the vibrations and try your best not to cum

Depending on the toy you have, you may not even want to start the vibrations right away. If it’s a stroker sleeve, especially if it’s textured inside, perhaps you’ll first want to feel things out, move it a little to understand just how different it is to your hand. 

I like to masturbate without vibrations for a while, then finally add the bullet vibrators into the sleeve to push myself over the edge. That way you last longer (if that’s your goal) and when you finally do switch on the vibrations, it feels like fireworks. Try this technique and see how it works for you. 

Of course, if it’s more of an insert-here deal, then you may not even have the option of going without vibrations. In that case, a slow and steady build-up leads to the best release.  

Go hands-free

The whole point of having a male vibrator is to not have to make too much of an effort. I already said how the option of going hands-free was one of my favorites when it came to these toys. 

The Hot Octopuss Jett and the Tracey Cox Supersex I talked about in my list are hands-free. All you need to do is pop them on, find a porn clip you’d like to watch, and enjoy the mounting pleasure. 

You can use these devices for edging, meaning orgasm denial. If you skip climax a couple of times, once it finally arrives, it’ll be earth-shattering. You can also easily use the toy while you’re giving your partner oral sex, to keep yourself rock hard and ready to move on to the next step. 

Play with angles and unlock different sensations

Even though it might seem that some of these toys don’t allow for much experimentation, you can still try out a few things. Depending on the angle you insert your penis in, the pleasure points could be different every time. Male vibrators allow you to unlock sensations you’ve likely never felt before. 

(Of course, be careful not to hurt yourself. If it feels too tight or not all that pleasurable without vibrations, the movement will only make it worse. Make sure to read the instructions of the toy beforehand so you know what you’re doing.) 

Stronger erections?

This is not a guarantee, but the overall thoughts are that vibrations increase blood flow to the penis. This leads to stronger and more lasting erections. I definitely noticed this on myself (as did my girlfriend) but I have no idea whether it works for everyone. If you’re having erection problems, your solution might just be a cool vibrating sex toy. You never know! 

Include your partner

Finally, if you have a partner who is every bit as kinky as you are, then the sky’s the limit. As I briefly touched on before, you can use a male vibrator on the base of your shaft while your partner is giving you head or you can even leave it there while you’re having sex for insanely intense feelings. 

You can simply put on the toy and have your partner play with the controls. My girlfriend is particularly fond of this one because she loves to watch me squirm. If you decide to get an attachment for a magic wand, you can go for orgasm control (orgasm denial) that will lead to a climax you haven’t even imagined is possible. 

Talk to your partner and see if they have any ideas they might want to try. Especially if they’re female, girls tend to have a lot of wild thoughts about your dick and your toys. More than you think they do. 

Ever Tried A Male Vibrator?

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What are your thoughts on this type of toy? Yay or nay? Have you ever tried one? Are you going to, after reading this post? Talk to me in the comments, I’m curious to read whether you’ve had any experience with male vibrators and whether you’re open to trying them.

Written by Brandon

I'm Brandon, I'm one of the main writers and owners of ewsingles (the other being my girlfriend (Willow). My girlfriend and I have an open relationship and share our passion for sex toys, sex and dating.

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