I get it, you may think that a realistic sex doll could never make its way into your marriage, you may think that there really isn’t much point to having a sex doll when in a marriage.
Honestly, I used to think the same, before I got a sex doll I thought people who owned them were a little strange, and then when I became sexually frustrated, worked off my feet, and with no time for a relationship I bought one.
I never ever thought ‘am I one of them, weird people?’ because I didn’t let my sex doll become my life and nor did I let it get in the way of a real-life relationship.
In reality, I just enjoyed the pleasure, constant orgasms, and had the money to buy a life-sized sex toy.
What does this have to do with making your sex life magical?
Fast-forward a few years and I’m in a relationship with a beautiful girl, we have great sex and we even include our sex dolls (simulating a threesome with a sex doll) and have had some of the best sex of our life and below is how we do it and how it spiced up our relationship.
The Sex Dolls I’m Talking About
You may think I’m talking about some weird blowup doll (blow up dolls that don’t suck) from the ’90s or a simple fleshlight.
These things just won’t do, they look and usually feel nothing in comparison to the types of sex dolls that I am talking about.
The sex dolls I’m referring to are these hyper-realistic dolls:
Can you believe that these are pictures are of a doll and not a real human?
Why is the doll so important?
Well if you’re going to really explore sexual fantasies with your partner then you need to believe in what’s happening and these sex dolls are so real me and my girlfriend find it hard in the heat of the moment to tell the difference and often get incredibly carried away.
If you’re wondering about the price of a sex doll like this, read that article to really get a feel for what you’re getting.
They sell from between $1000 – $2500 (sometimes cheaper) and a large majority of them are female, but you can get males they just aren’t as realistic.
You can also get cheaper dolls, you can get torso dolls, which come without legs and head, some couples prefer these, it’s all up to you and your preferences, but that is all explained in the above article.
Fake Threesomes
Most of us would all like to try a threesome, your wife, your husband, most of your friends wouldn’t mind trying it out and having sex with multiple people.
The issue is trust, jealousy, and finding the right person to have the threesome with.
What if you could just add a sex doll and simulate a threesome? Because that’s exactly what we did.
Me and my partner lowered the lights, roleplayed, and while I had sex with the sex doll my wife kissed, touched, and explored my body, I then gave her oral sex while still using the doll.
It felt incredible, my wife felt extremely turned on and when you mix this with vibrators, it’s next level.
We then invested in a male doll and my wife would ride the doll while sucking my member and we would even do double penetration, she had some of the best orgasms of her life (so did I)
It doesn’t even feel strange when having the threesome, it felt slightly strange at first but once we both got into it, it became like second nature and we both loved it. Because our sex dolls are so realistic it feels like you’re having sex with a real woman, just one that isn’t very talkative.
Tips for faking a threesome:
- Low lights/Blindfolds
Dim the lights, grab a blindfold and go to town.
This makes everything feel more real and in the beginning, it makes it all less awkward.
- Use vibrators
If you’re using a female sex doll, make sure you get a male sex doll or a good vibrator for your partner, she can explore your body, pleasure herself, and have you eat her out while she sends vibrations to her clit and vagina. This is my GF’S most used vibrator (it always gets her off).
- Get in the mood.
You have to roleplay, get used to talking and pretending to be someone you’re not, try it first with easier fantasies, and work your way up to more advanced scenarios.
Add VR To Your Sex (Trust Me)
My girlfriend and I have sex dolls and a VR setup.
We decided to connect the two together and watch similar VR sex while we used our sex dolls, we were in the same room, having sex with our dolls and each other and it felt, unlike anything I’d ever experienced.
It broke us out of that boring sex routine and made our fantasies come to life, having the dolls made it all come together and is a must-try for any couple.
Masturbation is AWESOME
Most couples try to stop masturbation and instead ask that their partner comes to them before masturbating, however, masturbation and sex are two different things.
Allowing your partner to have time to masturbate and explore their own body is definitely needed.
Sex dolls and other sex toys are just an outlet, another sexual way to explore yourself, and shouldn’t be seen as weird.
You should try mutual masturbation and solo masturbation, encourage your partner to use sex toys, and explore themselves and you will see it just turns into better, more frequent sex for you.
Cuckold Fantasy
Some men and women enjoy seeing their partners having sex with someone else.
In real life, this can be a dangerous fantasy that could ruin your relationship.
However, if you add sex dolls, you can experience what it’s like to have your partner ignore you, have you not join in, and make you watch them pleasure themselves with a sex doll.
You may feel like it won’t feel real, but have you seen some of these dolls and how real they look?
As someone who has shared his wife (story here), I can tell you that both can be really fun, and sex dolls are definitely a good intro.
Any Porn Fantasy
There are lots of porn fantasies you can try out with a sex doll and your partner.
Whether you want to roleplay an affair, one-night threesome, random hookup, or a cuckold fantasy.
Sex dolls allow you to test things out before really trying them or even trying them in real life at all.
They also bring something new to the relationship. As someone who has experienced a lot of sexual fantasies both in reality and with a doll, I can tell you the experience is different, but it’s usually just as intense, just without the risks and issues that come with really trying sexual fantasies with your partner.
I want to leave it up to you to find out what fantasies and things you and your partner can explore with a realistic sex doll, I think you would be surprised.
Whether you’ve always wanted to try a threesome, or VR porn has got your brain ticking, maybe you want to see your girlfriend with another man and this is the perfect way to try it.
Whatever gets you ticking, leave it in the comments as I love to read them, and appreciate any feedback.
I’m Brandon, I’m one of the main writers and owners of ewsingles (the other being my girlfriend (Willow). My girlfriend and I have an open relationship and share our passion for sex toys, sex and dating.
I’m trying to talk my wife into a doll now. She is open to it so that is good. I think this would really spice up our otherwise mundane sex life and I am excited about getting one