I wasn’t going to make this article, I thought it was going to be TMI, that our lovely readers would be repulsed by reading about my anal preferences and I kept putting it off and stored it in the back of my mind. It’s not like me to shy away from a sexual subject but I just didn’t know if writing about DP was going to be something our readers even wanted to see.
However, the more I ignored it the more it crept up and I finally figured although it is very TMI, it might help somebody out there on their own double penetration journey, and assisting others sexually is one of our main goals for our blog.
Therefore I decided to finally create this article, after months of deliberation and I have filled it with useful and personal information on the art of double penetration, how it’s done, how you can achieve it, what it feels like, and how you can simulate it too. Yes, it’s embarrassingly TMI but it has to be so that you can really understand this kink, if you have any questions leave them down below and I will get back to you! Now, let’s begin.
What Is DP (Double Penetration)?
Double penetration or abbreviated to ‘DP’ is the act of being penetrated by two cocks at the same time. This can be achieved in various ways, depending on how flexible and imaginative you are but these are the most popular methods people use to enjoy double penetration:
Spit Roasting: Spit roasting is where one cock is in the mouth and the other in the anus or vagina. This is also known as an ‘Eiffel tower’ where the two people penetrating hold hands and form a pyramid shape.
One In Butt One In Pussy: Another form of DP is having one penis in the ass and one in the vagina simultaneously. This can be a tricky position to get the hang of but the most effective way is if one man is on his back with the woman sitting on top, whilst the other penetrates her from behind.
Two In One Hole: Two cocks in one hole isn’t for the faint-hearted. It has to be mastered as stretching the ass, pussy, or mouth to fit two throbbing cocks is no easy fleet but once it’s done it is incredible and feels amazing for everyone involved.
I’ve experimented and tried all of the above ways to enjoy double penetration, but more on that in the next part of this article.
The First Time I Got Double Penetrated (What It Felt Like)
For those of you that read our blog, you will know all about the first time I was shared, however, that isn’t when I was double penetrated, although it surely helped me with my confidence and desire for this experience.
The first time I got double penetrated was during a threeway, I had my partner’s cock in my mouth and I just sat down on top of my lover, he began fucking me and I took my partner’s cock deep into my throat as my pussy was filled up too. At first, I didn’t even really realize what I was doing, I was so carried away that all I was thinking about was how good I felt but soon as they both filled me with their cum it dawned on me that I was being used in both holes and I loved it.
I’ve talked about threesomes a lot on our blog, I’ve done double penetration many times, it’s one of my favorite things about having threesomes. Usually, I do one in the mouth and one in my vagina, but I’ve tried all of the other versions of double penetration as well.
Does Double Penetration Feel Good?
This question depends entirely on the person and the experiences they have had but for me, personally double penetration feels amazing.
The Pussy and Butt combo is the best: When this is done right it is the most pleasurable sexual experience I’ve ever had. The sensation of two men, two voices, two cocks, two sets of hands all sandwiching you and trying to get off using your body is out of this world, but both men need to keep a rhythm and be close enough to kill the awkwardness, cocks will touch each other, cocks will pop out and they will feel each other cock inside of you.
You feel their cocks rubbing together through your pussy and ass, with the right position and rhythm I have out-of-body orgasms, it’s one of the only things that can get me there.
It’s not all good: The positions are hard, take some getting used to and there is awkwardness, especially if it’s your first threesome. I usually find that if it happens naturally (especially if it’s your first time having a threesome that’s best), or waiting until you’re comfortable with a third to ask to try it and all taking the time to get it right. Planning to do it with your first, might kill the mood and take away from the fun. I’ll talk about the positions that I’ve had the most success with below.
What about Spit Roasting: The easiest way to try double penetration (which is how I first tried it) is being spit-roasted, it’s super sensual, works in lots of positions, and allows one guy to fuck you as hard as you like, while you try to suck another guy’s dick. It’s so hot and the more pleasure you get the more you struggle to stay focused on sucking, having a warm, hard cock in your mouth throbbing while the other is inside your pussy is unbelievably sexy.
It also lasts longer, when one is about to cum they can switch out and I can then go easy with my mouth just teasing so they can last longer.
Two In Vagina/Ass: I am personally not a massive fan of two cocks inside of my vagina at once, it’s hard to do and I’ve only done it accidentally, it was meant to be a situation like the above, I pushed against my vagina to the limits, I was so turned on that it was really hot and felt good, but every time I’ve tried to do it since it’s been uncomfortable and overstretching so I don’t tend to try it often.
Does It Hurt?
Double penetration should never hurt, if it hurts you’re doing it wrong. Depending on the position you’re trying (here I am talking about simultaneous ass and vaginal penetration) if you enjoy anal sex and know how to get your butt ready, then it should be painless to enjoy as long as the third isn’t too hung. It’s good to have a bit of size with one of the men (makes it easier to fit them both in), but too much size can hurt.
The most common pain I’ve had is through uncomfortable positions where I get tired muscles or from hair being lent on or trapped (I recommend putting your hair up if you can).
What Type Of DP Do I Prefer?
Spitroasting and synchronized pussy and anal when I’m with the right guys are definitely my favorite ways of enjoying double penetration sex and I find that most of my lovers feel the same way too. It’s easy, it feels good and gets everyone off so well.
Being with the right person matters a lot less if I’m feeling really horny which usually happens in threesomes. As long as you’re all turned on, lubed up, and respectful, all of my preferences for the ‘right guys’ go out of the window and I enjoy raw, uninterrupted, casual sex.
What About Cum?
It’s not something everyone thinks about and I only added this section to mention the magical feeling when both guys finish at the same time inside you. It’s a feeling like no other, being filled with cum and male fluid in both holes, one hole or every hole. It is seriously instinctual and makes you feel so complete.
Do Other Women Enjoy DP?
This is a broad question but I would say generally women that try DP tend to enjoy themselves and keep coming back for more. This is an educational video on what people say about double penetration, it’s really interesting and something I recommend you watch.
There are also real people on forums like Reddit and Quora who share their real-life experiences and situations for you to read through.
This thread offers some great techniques for first-timers and this women-led thread goes into detail about women’s different (some good, some bad) experiences with DP I recommend giving this page a look too as it gives you more of an insight into how other people felt and how they achieved such a wonderful situation.
What Does DP Feel Like For Men?
I asked my partner to come and explain this part as I cannot speak for men. We have only tried it with pegging, dildos, and butt plugs, no man has actually penetrated his asshole. He has tried DP with another man inside of me thought so he is going to speak from that experience, he says:
“I have been double penetrated only using sex toys (more info on how you can do that too below), for me, the experience has been so exciting, it has allowed me to explore without any of the hang-ups or usual issues that come with this sort of situation. As far as how it feels penetrating a woman with another man’s cock rubbing against your own, it’s interesting. It’s certainly something you have to relax about and just enjoy, there are positions you can avoid if you really don’t want your cock that close to another man, however, my advice would be to just let go and have fun because the sensations are out of this world and totally worth every second. It feels so primal and animalistic”.
Read this thread to read more about what it feels like to experience double penetration inside of a woman as a man.
How To Try DP Without Adding A Third
Before I ever did double penetration in a real threesome my boyfriend and I simulated it in many ways, I highly recommend anyone do this, you will train your body, and get an idea of the sensation and if you master this it will make a real threesome much more comfortable and orgasmic.
Guide For Women
If you want a male guide, keep on scrolling and you will find it directly after the female advice. Simulating a threesome with adult toys is so exciting, so realistic, and will really help you on your DP journey.
With all of these toys, start slow, and work your way up. Don’t go in for something huge straightaway, take your time and enjoy each step.
Simulate DP with Butt Plugs: Butt plugs are non-intimidating, affordable, and in this case, a fantastic addition to your collection if you want to mimic the sensation of DP using just a toy. There are two types of butt plugs you can experiment with:
Vibrating plug: Slip this arousing plug into your ass and enjoy 10 different vibration settings, a sensation of feeling full and your ass being stimulated whilst your vagina or mouth does all of the other work.
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Penis plug: If you want something a little more realistic in size and shape, this penis-shaped butt plug will help you create a fantasy roleplay situation where you can enjoy your ass, vagina, and/or mouth being used up all night long.
Dildos are great (with a suction cup for added realism): I recommend you get two dildos (I love this realistic 7-incher), suck one, fuck one, or have your partner use both of the dildos inside of you at the same time, maybe while he eats you out. You can also use the suction cup feature while sucking your partner’s cock or use a dildo while your husband is in your ass or pussy.
This double penetrating dildo offers you the best of both worlds not only does it come with two realistic dildos already built-in but it features a suction-cup base for you to secure to any hard or flat surface too.
Sex machine (a complete experience): A sex machine offers you an experience that virtually mimics the real thing as closely as possible. They aren’t as affordable as other sex toys but if it’s the complete and convincing experience you’re looking for, this sex machine offers all of that and more. It penetrates you with rhythm and skill, it fills every hole you need it to and both men and women can use it too.
BonBon Toy Mount (one of my favorite ways to simulate DP): Place your favorite dildo in this sex toy mount, get on top, and then have your partner get behind the sex toy mount and fuck you from behind. If you want a mount with more length you can use this one. Toy mounts are a comfortable way to ride a sex toy and feel as if you are mounted on top of a hung stallion.
If you’re interested you can read more about my real experiences with sex machines and mounts by clicking here.
Dildo Cock Ring: This magnificent dildo comes with a built-in cock ring, clitoral stimulator, and vibrator all in one. It allows you to enjoy everything at once, even an enjoyable 6-inch dildo that can be used solo or along with his cock so that you can simulate a wonderful double penetration situation.
Strap On And His Cock: He puts the strap-on on and then he puts his cock over the top, so you can have both his cock and the fake cock, this only works with some strap-ons like this one as there’s enough room in the harness for a cock and dildo to do their job simultaneously.
Using A Sex Doll: We are suckers for this type of roleplay, it is so easy to do and yet so effective. Your mind really does start to believe there is a third person involved. This is our experience of having a threesome with a sex doll.
Guide For Men
If you’re a man looking to simulate a DP situation, you have come to the right place. This guide will show you exactly how to do it without even needing to ask another person into your bedroom.
Butt Plugs: Use butt plugs (my plugs mentioned in the women’s guide above are incredible) to simulate the sensation of your ass being filled as your partner fills your mouth with their cock or a strap-on dildo. It will simulate the feeling of being used up and pushed to your limits.
Fleshlight Combo: Peg your boyfriend from behind while he uses a textured and realistic fleshlight secured in place with a hands-free mount, it will take him to a new world of pleasure and give him the DP experience in an instant.
Suction cup dildo + Vagina: Have him bounce back on a suction cup dildo like this one or have him use a sex machine, while he goes inside you. This simulates DP and brings both his ass and cock tremendous amounts of unparalleled pleasure.
How To Make DP More Enjoyable (Positions, Techniques & Tips)
I wanted to include a section whereby you can learn how to make double penetration better than it already is. This can be achieved with sex toys, different positions, and other tips and tricks.
Start With Toys
Get used to the sensation of having both of your holes used up, and accommodate yourself with the feeling of being stretched. Having toys inside of you allows you to revel in the full sensation you will get from two cocks, it gives you a wonderful insight into how to handle two things at once and it will stretch you out a little bit too.
Loosen up
In threesomes, usually, my boyfriend and another guy will start by fucking me in different positions, one at a time, they will go down on me, kiss me, and get me all loosened up and nice and wet. The more aroused I am the better, if I’ve had an orgasm even better, it makes it easier for me to let go and have an orgasm during the dp.
Some women get too sensitive after the orgasm, so if you don’t know her body all that well it’s best to just really warm them up and edge her instead.
Getting Inside
Actually getting inside the hole is 95% of the issue with DP. Once both guys are in, it’s good to go. But both getting in can be hard. Like I said above, this can be made easier if the woman is wet, loosened up, relaxed, and take things real slow. DP should never hurt, if it hurts you’re doing it wrong.
Positions:
Best: One guy lays on his back, I then lower onto him my back against his front, he goes inside my butt and the other guy fucks me from the front, you can go close the edge of the bed so the guy who is on top can stand to make it even easier.
This makes it better because the guy on the bottom doesn’t thrust too much so it fixes the out-of-rhythm problem, but allows you to still feel him and have the intensity of it.
The Most Common: One guy lays on his back, you get in a cowgirl position on top of him, then you bend over and have the other guy go inside your ass. This sounds easier than the above in practice, but I find the above easier for me.
Spoon: One guy takes your butt from the back, and the other takes you from the front while you are all laying on your side. Great, but one of the guys has to be above average in size to make everything fit.
Once everyone is in its fun, but everyone needs to stay in rhythm or the guy in the butt needs to go super slow. However, it’s good fun for having romance and closeness of everyone together like that,
Training and Prep:
If you’re planning on enjoying double penetration in your ass and vagina, watch this anal prep guide and make sure that you get comfortable with anal, wear butt plugs, have anal sex one-on-one, and get confident with that part of your body, it will make it easier for you to relax and enjoy.
If you have never really done anal before, get used to it, and don’t go into DP as a novice. Use your fingers, sex toys, a cock, and anything else to stretch those muscles safely and get used to the feeling.
Rhythm and Timing
Both guys, especially if one is inside your pussy and the other in your ass need to be in time with one another and work at the same speed, that’s how you will have an amazing orgasm. If they can’t keep time have one of the guys just relax, maybe do super slow thrusts, while the other does the intense thrusting.
Cock size
It’s good to have the smaller-sized guy penetrate first, it will mean he can get inside of you easier. Bigger can be better for double penetration, making certain positions easier and less straining, however, that’s not to say smaller cocks won’t have a great time, it just means you may have to play around with different positions and secure the smaller cock in first.
Thrusting Motion
You will find that both men have to be quite dominant with you, holding you in place, and using deeper and harder thrusts to make sure they stay inside you. There will be some slipping out, some awkward cocks trying to get into the same holes, and issues with rhythm but once everyone gets into the swing of things and thrusting becomes smooth and fluid, everything will feel incredible.
Two In The Pussy
If you’re planning on trying two cocks inside of your pussy, this will help.
Have one guy inside you just enjoying being inside you, and the other guy doing the thrusting that way it keeps the rhythm in check and everyone gets the awesome sensation. They can swap and take turns but this is the easiest way to ensure satisfaction.
If both guys are moving and trying to thrust it can make the rhythm harder, it can make it so that they are constantly slipping out, and in general, it just won’t feel as nice.
If you have any questions or anything to add, feel free to leave all of your comments down below!
Willow
I’m Willow, I’m Brandon’s girlfriend and we run this blog together (with the help of some friends). We both have an open relationship and both love being kinky (I mean who doesn’t?). I love writing, music and my Womanizer. If you have any questions leave them in the comments.