Regular sex is great and we can all confirm that, but even a new set of clothes can be quite a turn-on when it is worn by your significant other. Now consider your partner dressing up in a costume that you always had the hots for. Pretty arousing, right? You are not wrong by any means. Many people find this trend quite thrilling in the bedroom and me and my boyfriend are not so different from them.
One of the things that we do in our bedroom throughout the years is roleplaying and I don’t think we will ever stop doing it. My boyfriend always thinks of new outfits that I could wear in the bedroom from time to time and I mostly agree with his choice. There are numerous roleplay outfits that we tried over the years and I will share some of them with you.
Of course, almost everyone who is into roleplaying has a nurse outfit and we are no exception. When we get bored from the usual nurse-patient routine, we just switch it up to the doctor-nurse scenario and things go in an unexpected direction. Often we like to play the french maid and her strict boss who likes to keep things tidy and spotless, which she can’t really oblige so he has to keep her in a straight line.
Every outfit has its story and a routine that goes with it. You don’t have to actually follow the “script” if you get off on just the looks of the outfit, but it does really help out. My boyfriend and I try to really get in the role of each role and we tend not to break character as long as it lasts. I will try to explain why is that.
Why I Love Playing Dress Up With My Boyfriend
My boyfriend and I love to roleplay for numerous reasons. Our sex life got a little bit stagnant a few years ago and we started talking about it and how can we improve it. Mind that proper communication is key, like with any other thing in a good relationship. We both agreed that we could try roleplaying to spice things up in our bedroom play.
The next day we decided to start by simply setting our minds to a scenario and keep it going. No outfits or requisites just our imagination and commitment to the role. It was really bad. We couldn’t get into the role and we were just laughing about it, but that night our sex was better than in the last few months. We were going somewhere with this.
After a week we decided to buy our first outfit and it was a secretary costume. Since we both don’t work in an office, this was the outfit we chose because it wouldn’t make us have any jealous thoughts or anything like that. The outfit worked like a charm. My boyfriend got the hardest boner in months just by looking at me in this new light and I was dripping wet when he gave me some paperwork to do.
When I refused to do it because “the pay was low” he got mad and lifted me from my desk before plunging me on the bedroom bed. We were horny as never before and the sex we had was a blast. In the next few weeks, we were trying all kinds of roles and scenarios and each one was better than previous and our sex life was back on track.
I strongly suggest any couple who has doubts about this to give it a go. What do you have to lose? Keep in mind that you should be honest with your partner and communicate in an open way about the subject.
The Slutty Roleplay Outfits You Need To Try:
I’ve put together all the hottest outfits I’ve owned over the years, I update it all the time and it’s filled with the best deals and best prices online for each item.
The Sexiest Nurse Outfit
This famous Sexy Nurse outfit. I guess everyone that went to a hospital has seen a hot nurse walk by in their short skirts and an unbuttoned shirt and had their imagination go wild.
This outfit offers the same look on your significant other or any girl that is willing to wear it for you. Or if you want to surprise your male partner, this is the perfect thing to buy as a roleplaying lady. It is a sexy nurse costume set with a matching cap to go with it.
Traditional white with contrasting red colors are thrilling for the eyes of the man who will be looking at you. Very deep V neckline with a red lace that you can tighten and loosen up as you or your partner want. It comes with Merry widow style bottom with 4 suspender traps that your stockings can be attached to. The only downside is that the stockings are not included, so you will have to provide them yourself.
Plus Size option Slutty Nurse Costume
This lovely plus size nursing costume will look amazing on any girl daring enough to wear it. Its see-through design is perfect for role play as it reveals just enough to get you horny without breaking your role. Your curves will be shown in the best light possible with sheer white mesh and halter style that flatters your breasts and gives them gentle support.
The skirt has a heart-shaped symbol with a white cross that truly embellishes the character you will be portraying. Turn around and show that you have nothing to hide with this gorgeous outfit. The back is completely open, showing your attributes from back to butt. Pair it up with lace-topped stockings and complete this fully immersive nurse look.
My Go-To Sexy French Maid Outfit
This wonderful French maid outfit is made of see-through black mesh with lace and faux apron. The adjustable halter will ensure a great fit for all breast sizes and the see-through aspect will come in great in showing them off. The faux corseted lace-up front will narrow down the look of your waist and keep your man’s jaw wide open.
It wouldn’t be a complete look without the matching headband for the immersive experience, and this costume has it all. Turn into the flirty French maid in an instant with this amazing outfit that is amazingly light in weight and you won’t even feel you are wearing it.
Plus Size option Sexy Maid Costume
This 4-piece French maid outfit will make your wildest roleplay scenarios come true. Your lover will be blown away by the quality and craftsmanship of this gloriously designed costume. It has a stretchy black lace mini dress with white lace trim along the hem and neckline. It has no straps and fits your plus-size body like a glove.
While we are at gloves, it has 2 gauntlets with finger loops matching the costume that will certainly catch your lover’s eye. The elasticated black lace choker is one of a kind. It has a white satin bow and hook that is fastened at the back. The whole outfit is transparent, so it will bring out the best features of your body.
Sexy Secretary Costume
Surprise your man or woman with this incredibly sexy secretary outfit. This tight-fitting costume will get a few drops of drool from your partner when you walk past him dressed up in this costume with a matching thong and suspender straps. The cleavage boosting plunging front will bring out your breasts in a way you never thought possible. The whole costume is done in a traditional pinstripe design and includes four suspender straps. Get into the best roleplay scenario of work hard play hard with this fantastic outfit.
Plus size option slutty secretary outfit
Don’t fear my lovely plus size queens, there is an option for you as well to join the secretary club. This plus size secretary outfit, dare I say it is even sexier than the previous one. With a white shirt outlined with black and white pinstripes and a plunging V-neckline will raise a few eyebrows in your home office.
The black pinstripe skirt goes really well with the shirt and will ensure that your lustrous booty will shine in it. It is short enough for the lower part of your perfect butt to be revealed at your desire. It is a two-piece outfit and it doesn’t include stocking or glasses. The material used is polyester.
Sexy Miss Santa Outfit
Has your lover been a naughty boy this year? Will he receive a gift? Be sure to dress up in this miss Santa outfit and let him know that Christmas is coming early this year. This dress features a sweetheart neckline and mini hem and with a waist-clinching belt, it is guaranteed to create the perfect role-play for your man. The mini cape is hooded and goes really well with the rest of the outfit.
The dress has shoulder straps which can be taken off depending on what you want to accomplish with your look. It can be worn in a few different styles so you can keep your lover guessing. The rear of the dress has a lace-up panel that adds a flash of skin and allows for an easier fit. The material used for this costume is velvet and feels very good on the skin.
Plus size option sexy miss Santa
We all know that Santa is no skinny person and this outfit is perfect for your roleplay as the naughty miss Santa. This sweetheart skater costume comes in three pieces and is made from faux-fur and velvet material, which guarantees comfort.
The three pieces include a dress, a mini cape that comes with a hoodie and a shoulder piece that can be detached from the outfit. The whole costume is dyed in deep red color with white outlining and is made to resemble the perfect winter holiday season.
The waist of the dress has an elasticated belt that can fit any size you need. The hooded mini cape can be tied around the neck for a more immersive look. Get right in the holiday spirit with this wardrobe accessory. The material used is mostly velvet.
Sexy Superhero Costume
Take on the role of the savior of the world with this sexy Wonder Woman superhero costume. The details are amazing and you will truly feel invincible when wearing one of these fantastic outfits.
Roleplay as a hero who will do anything to save her beloved man from perils in the bedroom. This outfit features a mini dress, matching panties, a headpiece, golden cuffs, and a golden lasso. No one will escape your lasso of truth when you dress up as the strongest woman alive.
The stretchy fabric will ensure a comfortable and flattering fit for all sizes and prolonged wear. The dress is fastened by a hook-and-eye system on the back. Push up cups will boost your boobs and leave your lover breathless. The material used for this outfit is polyester.
My Favorite Trashy Lingerie
Not every play has to be in some sort of role. Surprise your man with this slutty lingerie and you will see a big smile on his face, and a big bulge in his pants.
This sheer mesh combo of bra and thong can be worn throughout the day and you will think you are wearing your regular lingerie until you take your clothes off. The thong is crotchless and the bra is in a pick-a-boo style with pink bows. It is revealing and covering at the same time, which will make your lover go insane from wanting you in the bed right away.
How To Make Your Sexy Outfit Even Better
As you may know, you don’t need to play by the rules all the time. Every outfit can be adjusted and improved on and there really is no limit, or right or wrong when it comes to this.
There are numerous tricks you can use to spice things up even in an already agreed roleplay scenario. It all comes to communication with your partner and if he likes surprises or not. This little advice can make the difference between a usual roleplay or a completely wild night in your bed.
Add A Panty Vibrator
One of the best ways to make these gorgeous roleplay outfits a little hotter is to add one of these lingerie vibrators, you just pop them in, give your partner the remote and enjoy.
Add nipple stickers
Add these nipple stickers and surprise your significant other when you or he tear the clothes off your body. The look on his face will tell you everything you need to know and you can continue from there. Two pairs of X-shaped nipple pasties await you in this set.
One pair is leathery snakeskin and the other is plain black. Each pair can be worn for 8 hours straight. They measure approximately 3.25 inches in diameter and you can wear them as a sexy outfit accessory or as nipple cover-ups. The choice is yours. The material from which they are made is satin.
You can add nipple tassels
Walk down the room with these nipple tassels dangling from your boobs and your man will follow on all fours. Super glamorous and extremely sexy, these nipple tassels can be worn with no problems for up to 8 hours. They can be reused for as long as you and your partner like.
They come in a pair and are sparking black which will go very well with any outfit you choose. They can also be worn either on your boobs or on top of an outfit as an accessory. Your striptease routine will get a boost up with these wonderful little things. They are self-adhesive and skin-friendly and very easy to fix in place. They don’t contain latex at all.
Light a candle or get a mood light
There is something really sexy and erotic in not revealing everything you have to show right away. Get some candles or a lamp that can be dimmed and set the mood so your man doesn’t know what is coming to him. Keep him guessing as you stroll around the room in your role as a french maid or a hot nurse.
Try roleplaying the outfit you’re wearing
The whole idea behind roleplaying is for you to get into the character you are supposed to be portraying. Whether it’s a nurse, secretary, french maid or a soccer mom that brought her son late for practice and needs to apologize to the coach. Work on your script and get into the role as much as you can and it will give you the best experience a roleplaying adventure can offer.
For example, if you are supposed to be a nurse, come to the side of the bed with your husband in it and tell him it’s time for a surprise check-up. Turn him on his stomach and pretend that you are giving him a flu shot or you need to check his pulse by massaging his butt.
If you are going as the flirty French maid, apologize for not cleaning the room in time and tell him that you expect punishment for your actions.
Possibilities in this field are endless and it all comes down to your imagination and communication with your partner.
I hope I gave you some ideas on where to start and in which direction to go when roleplaying. Happy acting!
I’m Willow, I’m Brandon’s girlfriend and we run this blog together (with the help of some friends). We both have an open relationship and both love being kinky (I mean who doesn’t?). I love writing, music and my Womanizer. If you have any questions leave them in the comments.