The Guide To Medfet and the Tools & Toys you need

Every once in awhile I stumble upon someone who has a medical fetish without even knowing it. They often refer to it as gynecologist fetish, doctor roleplay, nurse and patient routine and so on. 

There is a word for it and I am just gonna say it – Medical fetish, boys and girls. Everything that has a connection between sex and any form of medical job, facility, or role is a medical fetish. There is no need to go into detail when describing someone what you are into. Simply say that your fetish is medical and if they want to know more you may or may not tell them, it is completely up to you.

Medical fetish is a vast field and everything that falls into this category can be vastly different. That is why I will try to bring this fetish to the light and put a new perspective on how to look at this fetish and what items, tools, toys you can use to expand your knowledge and experience.

What does medfet/medical fetish mean?

cartoon medical case

Medfet or medical fetish means that a person is sexually attracted to something that is related to medicinal practice. Since it covers every possible medical fantasy it doesn’t actually have a straightforward definition.

Medical fetish is used to describe everything you can think of when it comes to any sort of sexual activity where people are aroused by medical equipment, medical environments, medicinal practice and or doctor, nurse, patient roles. Having said that, not every medical fetish has to have sexual activity in it.

A medical fetish may be manifested in many different ways. Someone may be aroused by the title doctor, others may have sexual thoughts about the uniforms you can usually see on the medical staff, and others may find that tools and operating procedures are sexy. There really is no rule when it comes to this.

Why People Have Medical Fetishes

cartoon docter

There really doesn’t exist a consensus on why people have and enjoy medical fetishes. It can be lots of reasons and everyone has their own preferences when it comes to this very big term.

It can be a leftover doctor and nurse kink from playing as kids. It can also be sexual arousal when seeing the uniform. It can be that some people just like the feeling of medical instruments on their bodies. Or, maybe you saw a hot nurse or a doctor and you associate that with sexual desire and wanted to investigate more.

The truth is that fetishes manifest in all sorts of ways and nothing is right or wrong when it comes to this sort of thing. If you have a medical fetish but don’t know where or how to start, stick with this article and I will try to bring it closer to your reach.

The Best Medfet Toys, Tools, And Furniture

types of medfet toys and tools

I tried to add something for everyone who enjoys medical fetish and I tried to keep high quality without having a crazy price tag and a lot of the below pairs amazingly with this list of bdsm furniture right here.

Tantric Chair/Bed

woman sitting on bdsm sex chair

No matter what you and your partner need in the bedroom, this tantric chair will deliver. It has clips to add restraints, can be used in loads of different positions, and is one of the best purchases I’ve made. You can also look at these sex chairs for more ideas.

Center Stage

center stage from liberator

There is no more need to put pillows or cushions underneath your lover to reach all the spots you want. Simply get one of these center stages and all of your deepest desires will be fulfilled.

It’s made from supportive and comfortable foam and can be used both on a bed or on the floor. The cover is made from faux leather and is completely removable for easier cleaning.

There are three cuff connectors on each side that are suitable for all sorts of bondage plays and the bolster on top will ensure that any part of your body is well levitated. This bed can also be used for massages.

Lube Applicating Syringe

lube syringe

Advance your med fetish with this lubricant applicator and you won’t need any other syringe while roleplaying. With its 5 inches of insertable length and a smooth tip, this toy provides the very best in the world of filling both anal and vaginal holes to the fullest.

The loopholes for fingers are there to make it easy to use with one hand, leaving your other hand free to explore your lover’s body. The applicator is very easy to fill up with your favorite lube and it has a rubber cap that will prevent any unwanted spillage.

Vaginal/Anal Speculum

anal speculum

This smooth steel speculum is made from stainless steel and is authentic in look meaning your doctor roleplay will become more immersive than ever. Lube it up and explore your inner gynecologist and your partner’s vaginal region like never before since this speculum opens laterally and not vertically like most others.

This toy features a screw-pin and it is there to make it easy to use with just one hand. Put your new toy in warm water, lube it up, and gently roll the pin to stretch your lover’s intimate parts. This vaginal speculum is fully sterilizable for body-safe fun and can be stretched to 3.75 inches at the tip, and 2 inches at the base.

Doctors Gloves

box of doctors gloves

This box contains 100 non-sterile, disposable, ambidextrous latex gloves. These gloves can be used in any way you and your partner like and they really embellish the whole doctor-patient routine. The gloves come in small, medium, or large size.

Reflex Hammer

reflex hammer

Strike a bit of fear in your patient with this realistic looking reflex hammer from Black Taylor and you will feel completely in charge. Test their reflexes and poke around their bodies to find the weak spots.

Use gentle taps or stronger hits and you will soon find out what they like. If you turn it sideways you can use it for spanking, although be careful with that. Wash with warm soapy water before and after use.

Rolling Drum

rolling drum

This incredible rolling drum can spark wonders when used right and it fits perfectly into any medkit you put together.

The pro tip is to use this with a violet wand attachment which comes with a guide on how to use it.

Anal Proctoscope

Anal proctoscope

If you love anal play then this toy is perfect for you. Made from transparent medical-grade plastic that measures 3 inches in length and 3.25 inches in maximum girth, this anal proctoscope will fill your partner’s anal hole with ease.

Lube up this amazing toy, slide it in your partner’s anus and remove the obturator (the plunger in the middle) and what you are left with is an unobscured view of your partner’s most intimate parts. Don’t worry about causing any damage because the flared base will stop over-insertion.

Vagina Spreader

vaginal spreader

If you and your loved one are having trouble reaching those vagina’s sweet spots then this vagina spreader is just for you. Just slip the center loop inside the vagina and use the bendy silicone for parting the labia.

Reaching the clitoris has never been easier when using this toy. It is made from body-safe silicone and it bends to match whatever shape your vagina needs. The best part is that your hands are completely free to additionally stimulate your partner.

Saffron Thigh Sling

saffron thigh sling

Achieve deeper than ever penetration with this sportsheets saffron thigh sling and your partner will scream with orgasms. The sling is very easy to set up and it is comfortable for prolonged usage due to soft rests on the legs and neck.

Your and your partner’s sexual experience will be so enhanced that you will never go back to regular sex without it. It comes in a stylish red and black color and the neck pillow has 2 D-rings for your kinkiest cuff plays.

Medical Posture Collar

medical posture collar

Restraint your difficult patients and make sure their head will always look straight with this deluxe padded medical posture collar.

This high-quality leather, nickel-plated, and hand-made collar has a chin rest to hold the jaw in place for whatever action you desire. It also features 2 D-rings on the side that provide more bondage and play options. This collar goes great with matching ankle cuffs and arm splints.

Latex Sheets

latex sheets

No matter what you do in the bedroom there will always be some kind of fluids, bodily or fabricated. That’s why you need to cover your bed or floor with this amazing product and never worry about stains or ruining your furniture. Scandal super sheet will ensure that no moisture or fluid penetrates its PVC plastic.

Even though it is made from plastic, the feeling on the skin is incredible and will leave no allergic reactions. Use it wherever you want and without any problems. It comes in glossy red color which will fit perfectly into the med fetish.


stainless steel pinwheel

Enhance your foreplay and teasing with stainless steel wartenberg pinwheel and leave your partner breathless with its 22 pins in total.

Made from nickel-free stainless steel it is hypoallergenic and won’t tarnish. With its slim textured handle, it guarantees a firm grip and total control over your actions on your lover’s body. Fit it in your medkit with ease since it has a chrome finish and a stylish look. Little skin contact – huge results in pleasure.

Anal Hook

stainless steel anal hook

This Dominix deluxe anal hook is every pirate roleplayer’s dream but the look it has will also fit very well in the med fetish practicers collection. Options are limitless when it comes to this kind of thing. Made from solid stainless steel and with the ball measuring 3.8 inches, it ensures easy insertion and amazing playtime. It can be used for both anal or vaginal insertion.

You can even use a part of the stem to provide a longer insertion length. It is easy to clean and sterile and the ball is screwed in place for easier cleaning and storage. On the other end, we have a 1-inch ring that can be used with a finger or hooked on to any of your bondage toys and it will work like a charm.

Sounding Devices

sounding devices

Sounding devices are tools that are inserted into the penis for direct stimulation of the prostate. Some men even love stimulating the bladder but this can be very dangerous if not done correctly.

It is quite an extreme practice but will leave you with an intense and pleasurable feeling if done right. It is best to use small diameter rods to start and work your way up the charts. I recommend using lots and lots of lube for this sort of play as no amount of lube is too much when it comes to this.

Penis plug

penis plug

This multi-functional penis plug from Dominix Deluxe can work wonders for you in the bedroom. It can enlarge your penis and stimulate your frenulum with its glands for external pleasure.

The tapered plug, on the other hand, will sit inside your penis and stimulate your nerve endings. It’s made from stainless steel and is designed for orgasm denial but it brings much more to the table. Get your favorite lube and start enjoying your new toy.

Sperm Stopper

sperm stopper

Enhance your erections, delay ejaculations, and prolong your sexy time with this sperm stopper. It seems like this little thing can do all sorts of wonders and it is true.

With its 1.1-inch glans ring with 7.9mm urethral ball made from stainless steel, it will fill out the tip of your cock like you never dreamed of. The hinged stopper will ensure a perfect fit and you don’t have to worry about losing the toy in your intimate part.

Urethral Stretcher

urethral stretcher

The urethral stretcher that you can find here seems like something you would see in a sci-fi movie, but the pleasure it can give you is no fiction at all. Expand your tip and shaft with this toy and make way for other things that you can put while this is still inside you.

Sounds intense, and trust me, the feeling it gives you is also intense. The material used is stainless steel and the 3x3mm rods set on the frame will give you plenty of options to gently stretch your penis. Not recommended if you are a beginner in penis sounding.


woman holding a dilator

Enjoy penis tip and shaft stimulation like never before with this tightly ribbed, intermediately long rod that will open new horizons to anyone brave enough to try it. This penis dilator is made from stainless steel and measures 7 inches in length and 6mm in diameter.

It is double-ended which means you can use both the ribbed end and the smooth end for whatever pleasure you desire. It is long enough to even stimulate the prostate in most men.

With its 39 grams of weight, it ensures an easy sliding into the penis and the round head needs to be well lubricated before starting any play. This toy will also fit perfectly among your medical fetish collection.

Sounding Kit

sounding kit

Whether you are stepping into the world of sounding or you are an experienced individual, you can’t go wrong with this 8 piece sounding kit. The material used in making this wonderful set is chrome-plated brass and the sizes range from 1/16 inches to ⅝ inches on the larger end of the largest sound. 

The Guide To Medfet

cartoon guide to medical fetishes

Safety first

Safety is the most important part of medfet.

I know you want to enjoy your fetish and make it as real as possible, I’m a kink who’s the exactly the same.

But, creating some safety rules that could save your ass if anything goes wrong or too far.


As in all BDSM practices, a safe word is a must and medical fetish is no different. Since the tools and toys you are using can be dangerous it is best that you and your partner set rules and a safe word before you start. The safe word doesn’t have to be actually a word, it can be a particular sound or even an agreed tap on some part of the body.

Communication (what you want)

Remember to always communicate with your partner. Never assume anything when it comes to this type of play and always agree on everything you do with your partner. Consent and soberness are needed for everything to go smoothly.

Start slow

Always start slow and use lots of lube and lotion. They can help to ease the body and prepare it for insertion of any foreign objects.

Do your research

Always read up on everything you want to know and get every fact straight before venturing in any sexual activity that demands tools and toys. There can never be enough research and there are plenty of articles and communities ready to help you and answer all your questions.

Find Out Your Exact Medical Fetish

If you know exactly what turns you on in the medicinal field you are good to go, but if you don’t it may take some time to find out. Talk with your partner and be open about your fantasies and what you would like to do in the bedroom. There is no right or wrong, only things that work more or less and by experimenting with different things you will eventually figure out what works best for you.

Bed, chair, floor?

Anything can be used as a sex tool if used correctly and if you get aroused by the thought of doing it. Nothing is forbidden in love and sex and don’t be afraid to experiment. Get one of those tantric chairs or center stage and your sex life will skyrocket. Don’t worry about ruining your favorite furniture, just get one of the sheets mentioned above and let your bodily fluids flow freely.

Get all your tools ready

Keep your tools nice and clean for each usage. Warm water will do the trick. Just wash them and wipe them with a cloth and store them in a bag or a case. You can add by getting a medical tray to store the toys you will use for the session.

Sterilize your toys/tools and partner

Always keep your tools clean and sanitized (if possible). Most of the tools and toys you will use in medical fetish are 100% sanitizable and washable in water. Just boil them in hot water to kill all the germs and bacteria that can accumulate and you are good to go. Don’t forget to cool it off a bit before using it.

You can also get some alcohol swabs and whips for sterilizing skin.

Get Some High-Quality Restraints And Restrain Your Partner

If your partner wants to play a little hard to get or he wants to get into the role of a scared patient, just restrain him with these bondage cuffs for wrists and ankles and you won’t need to worry about them squirming around.

Build up is everything

Every sex act depends on build-up and foreplay. Don’t just go in and force your way or make your partner uncomfortable like most doctors in the hospital would do. Ease up the process by building up the scene and really getting into the role and you will see that the results will be quite rewarding.

Let the fun begin

When you are all set, got your tools ready, sterilized them and your partner, had a long build-up and foreplay it is time to get into the main thing. Lube up your toys and dive in the medical procedures you and your partner agreed upon and start your sexual fantasy.

Medfet Safety (warnings)

warning sign

Every sexual practice which involves tools and toys for insertion needs to be taken with serious caution. Medical fetish is no exception and these few tips will make your experience much better and pleasurable.

As I’ve mentioned before, a safeword is a must and communicating with your partner is key. Always make sure you are both comfortable with the tools and toys you use.

Always sterilize your equipment to prevent infections and irritation the steel or silicone may cause.

Never engage in medical fetish or any other practice drunk or intoxicated by any drug. This will reduce your ability to perceive pain and pleasure and can be a cause for a sour evening instead of a wonderful playtime.

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