How To Give The Blowjob Of His Life Using Deep Throat Spray

I love giving my boyfriend blowjobs, it turns me on giving him pleasure, I love the sensation and I love watching his eyes roll back. Feeling his cock fill up my throat fills me with delight and feeling his cock begin to throb right before he climaxes and then fills up my mouth with his jizz is a dream come true for me.

The only thing I struggle with is deep-throating, it makes me gag and I always try and avoid going too deep as I feel awkward about the sputtering and gagging.

The First Blowjob I Ever Gave (Gone Wrong)

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The first time I ever gave a blowjob I was a little nervous, I had no idea what I was doing, I was so inexperienced but everyone was doing it and I wanted to know what all of the fuss was about.

The guy I was blowing was just as inexperienced as me, he unzipped his pants and I began kissing his cock, I had heard from my friends what I needed to know so I took his cock slowly into my mouth, barely parting my lips wide enough, I kept my eyes open as I took a little more of his member into my wet mouth. He groaned a little as I began bobbing my head up and down his shaft, I barely got past the tip when I began spluttering, I gagged and coughed. I tried to compose myself but whenever I got more than the tip it made me gag. He was enjoying the sounds I was making but it felt horrible for me, I felt as if I was going to be sick.

Luckily he came all of his stomachs quickly or I do think I would have ended up being sick. I never saw him again but luckily I have improved since then, however, I do still struggle with spluttering and feeling like I am going to puke.

The Best Deep Throat Spray (Numbing Spray)

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I wish more than anything that I had found this deep throat spray stuff sooner in life, it has been a game-changer for me and has made giving blowjobs so much easier. It has also given me more confidence as I know I am not going to gag whenever a cock is in my mouth.

All you do is spray a little into the back of your throat, wait a few minutes and it numbs your gag reflex (temporarily) so that you can take that cock as deep as you want without a worry in the world. I was skeptical when I first tried it as I assumed it wouldn’t work on me, as I mentioned before I literally feel like I will puke if the cock goes too far down but this stuff takes that away and for the first time in my life I can deep throat without that worry in the back of mind.

You only use a little each time but I love giving blowjobs so much that I have used bottles of the stuff, it has revolutionized my sex life and I am just thankful I found it sooner rather than later.

These numbing mints also work:

green pack of oral sex mints

I found doubling up the spray and these numbing mints (these are no longer available so I have linked something that works just as well) work amazingly well but it isn’t necessary to mix them t make them work. I like to take the numbing mints with me out of the house and I want to use the spray when I am at home. They do exactly the same thing as the spray except you suck the mint until dissolved and when it’s gone your gag reflex is practically nonexistent for a while. Something I also love about these mints is that if you know you’re going to be hooking up then it’s so useful to have a mint to freshen up with that doubles as a numbing agent.

This mixed with the next bit of advice will make you the best he has ever had...

How To Give A Sexy Blowjob (This Really Works)

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I am going to give you my best tips, tricks, and advice, following these rules will ensure you give him and his cock the best blowjob he has ever had and will never forget. Obviously, practice makes perfect but using these tips will make sure your blowjob is unforgettable.

The basic blowjob technique everyone should follow:

-Be Enthusiastic – Being enthusiastic when you’re down there is a huge turn-on for most men. I am not talking about going all crazy but enthusiastically enjoying the process, letting him know how good it feels, sucking it as if you mean it, and making his orgasm your prerogative.

Deepthroating – It’s a true fact that deepthroating makes men whimper with pleasure if you can take it down then go for it. Deepthroating takes a blowjob straight to a 10 and using deepthroat spray means you can do it without being inhibited by your gag reflex.

Make it wet – A wet, sloppy blowjob is always the best type of blowjob. It feels amazing for him and as the saying goes ‘The wetter the better’. It is really stimulating and if you can use your spit and lube combined, he will be in blowjob heaven.

Make it better using these tips…

Try out all of these techniques at different times, and learn which one you like to do best and which one he likes best.

Edging blowjob

An edging blowjob is a pure tease, if you have never heard of it before then let me explain it to you. It is the process whereby you bring him close to a climax, building him up and then you stop just before he cums, do this twice and he is like putty in your hands.

It is frustrating for him but such a tease and when he can finally cum the climax is like nothing he has ever felt before and certainly one to remember.

Tip: let him know what you’re doing or you might cause unwanted frustrations, tell him to just relax and enjoy being built up, you will let him cum just when you’re ready.

Sensual blowjob tips

Sensuality can sometimes be lost and a good blowjob isn’t just about taking his cock into the back of your throat as fast as you can, there’s actually something very intimate to it. A sensual blowjob means taking your time, connecting with him, and teasing him slowly, making the blowjob last.

  • Kiss his stomach and his thighs while you’re letting him cool off from the edging (if you have been edging beforehand). If you haven’t been edging you can still kiss his entire body before moving onto his cock.
  • Light a few candles and create a good environment, if you like relaxing music put that on, and make the room you’re in relaxed, cozy, and romantic.
  • Hand massage his member using body-safe oils (coconut oil works great), rather than diving straight into the blowjob try massaging him. Slowly giving his cock a good massage will build him up a lot and it feels absolutely amazing.

Don’t forget the balls

Some guys don’t like any touching on their testicles so ask before and remember a few gentle kisses over his balls will never go a miss. However, if he does like his balls to be played with then you can use this to your advantage by kissing them, sucking them, and playing with them as you blow him. Just remember to be gentle yet firm.

Enthusiasm/Enjoyment:

I mentioned this earlier but I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to be enthusiastic about the blowjob you are giving. The more you want it the hotter it is for him.

Use Your Hands

Use your hands as well as your mouth, wrap your hand around his shaft as you play with the head of his cock, and use your other hand to play with his balls. It sounds like a lot of multitasking but if you can get the hang of it, the blowjob is going to rock. So much delectable stimulation will blow his mind.

Use Your Tongue

Don’t forget to use your tongue, swirl it around the tip of his penis, lick his shaft, suck his balls, and use your tongue to really add simulation to your job. Instinct will tell you what to do with it, just imagine how good it would feel. The tip of a man’s penis is like a clit so use that knowledge to your ability.

Don’t Worry About Being Messy

Noise is hot, don’t worry about spit, drool, and accidental noises. Gagging is a noise I like to avoid as it does mean I am going to vomit however slurping noises, enthusiastic moans, and everything else is 100% on the cards, it’s hot as hell.

Vibrator against the perineum

A trick I learned a while ago but something my boyfriend can’t get enough of. Holding this non-intimidating vibrator against his perineum changes the game. It feels incredible and he can feel it around his entire cock, the orgasm feels out of this world and it’s all down to you and your little secret weapon.

Add a Blowjob Toy (Game-Changing)

Instead of using your hand, brush this blowjob toy over your partner’s cock while giving him a blowjob.

It adds a whole new element to the blowjob and gives you a res from sucking. The blowjob toy will do all of the work and it will feel like two people have just blown him. A whole new dimension to blowjobs, it’s an unforgettable experience. If the above blowjob toy isn’t enough you can check one of these blowjob machines, pop this over your man’s cock and leave it to do the work, you really will be the best he’s ever had.

The Full Deep Throating Guide (Don’t choke on cock)

  • Use the spray – Ensure you use the deep throat spray I mentioned at the begging of this article, it’s so important if you want to give him the best blowjob you have ever performed in your life. It stops gagging, spluttering, and the anticipation of not being able to go as deep as you want. It has changed blowjobs for me.
  • Combined with the left thumb pinching technique – This technique I have been using for years, it never fully stopped my gag reflex but it definitely helped at times. All you have to do is place your thumb in a closed fist, lightly squeeze your fist (pinching your thumb), and voila, your gag reflex should be much less.
  • Get a dildo to practice on – Practicing with this large dildo means practice makes perfect if you can take a cock like that then when it comes to doing the real thing you will be an expert. You can also use it for yourself which is always a bonus.

Should You Spit Or Swallow?

This is entirely up to you, some people don’t mind swallowing, some hate it and some love it. I personally love it and every man I have ever sucked off has loved it too but if you aren’t comfortable it’s not going to undo all of the hard work you did no matter what you choose.

Condom blowjobs

If you don’t want to spit or swallow, but don’t want to ruin his orgasm try a condom blowjob. This means you put a condom on either before or during his blowjob and when he cums it can be straight into your mouth without you having to swallow anything.

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  1. Just love facefucks and numbing spray lets me work hard on that cock no better feelng than that long Dick sliding deep in to my throat it feels fantastic and even better when he finaly shoots that big load deep in my throat

  2. Over the years I have turned down several sissy wannabes. Its a big responsibility… and I never thought that I was mean enough…I am a cuddler…. but I have just been chosen by a sissy. Thank you for this… i need all the help i can get

  3. Thank you for the fabulous suggestion on the throat spray for deep throat blowjobs. I am very excited to try it out on a few of my black boyfriends.

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